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Now accusation of arrogance. This will not end well. Perhaps tend your own garden

In some sense, arrogance is, "I know best. I am better than others."

Lasers assertion that, "My daughters are too valuable for a career," implies that he knows better than his daughters how they should live their lives. While I'm sure he loves his daughters and wants the best for them, it seems, based on his assertion, that he already thinks he knows that that is, rather than helping them to discover their destinies themselves in partnership and intimacy with God.

Perhaps it is an accusation, but for me it's less an accusation than an observation.

"Perhaps tend your garden." I don't mind debating as long as it remains respectful. I don't like when people give me unsolicited advice, because it's a sign of an effort to control.

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knightfall21 5mo ago

The deeper issue is that you see women as men with different genitals. But women aren't men. Their brains are wired differently. They are wired to nurture, and make sure people are nice and follow the rules. Men, on the other hand, are wired to be colder logical thinkers, risk takers, and have a better ability to directly give and take critical advice.

This difference makes men temperamentally suited for business and the workplace. It doesn't mean women can't do it, it means men are better at the inner fortitude required for work. (Notice that nowhere did I mention IQ, it's irrelevant).

With that basis, it's clear that women on average are better suited be nurturers at home by default. Existing under the headship of a father or husband becomes the natural place for girls to be.