There are LOADS of people on Japanese #Nostr. I look on "Global" and there is loads of Japanese chat. I'm shy too, but I'm also very forthright and abusive, so that's how I endear myself to people😂🫂.
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There's one guy that actually lives in my city and I keep poking into his conversations with English speakers, casually inferring that I too am in Japan hoping that senpai will notice me, but he never responds🙂↔️
It's my fault really, I should just chuck a flag into my bio but I feel like that's pushy somehow 🤷♀️
I’ve been muting all the Japanese notes because I don’t understand them.
It's very hard to understand even if you speak the language because they brought over jp twitter culture where nobody @s each other, so the conversations only emerge if you follow enough people 🤷♀️
Hah didn’t know there’s a specific jp twitter culture. Privacy by obscurity?
Obscurity by obscurity more like 🙄🤷♀️
What is “senpai” and are we helping you stalk him?
Prey or pray.
Senpai means upperclassmen, there's a trope in high school romance style fictional that the main girl will be into a boy from the year above her and will be trying to catch his attention.
"notice me sempai" because a meme, but perhaps only in the English speaking media I consume 🤷♀️
Because >became
Wow. First time I heard of that meme. If I were you I’d take all the power back and invert it… like a “notice me (classy woman or something or other)” meme
Just put the flag up. It's not desperate at all imo. I had no idea you weee Japanese
I kind of didn't want to put it out there in the beginning, I was both worried that the time difference would put people off from being my friend and schizo paranoid that someone would come and kidnap me 🙄