You want your wife to be weak?
Discussion
Is your husband your best friend? Does he support you in your career? He is helping you reach your dreams? Are yall a team?
Is the idea of looking up to your husband that demeaning to you?
We have different ideas about marriage, which is totally fine. The good news is that we all get to decide for ourselves what relationships to be in and which ones not to be. I think it’s just a bit interesting that you think you know what women, and “wives” in particular, generically “need”. Personally, marriage for me is not at all about need.
And it’s not that I have an issue looking up to someone who happens to be male. Except in the case when it comes at the expense of them looking up to me, equally, solely due to my gender.
I do know. Women dont want to look down on their husbands. That is a great way to kill followership. The symptom is clear: the sex is bad or gone. He masturbates. You focus on 'your career' instead of building a family together. He sponsors your dreams instead of providing and leading. If the right man came along, youd submit to him. But you dont believe your husband is strong enough to follow, so here you are online talking to me.
"Do you want your wife to be weak?"
A women who had a bad father will be unable or unwilling to follow or look up to her husband. She will make him follow her and call it equality.
My wife had a great dad and she is strong enough to follow my lead. Weakness is being so self important that you cuck your husband to maintain your insecure power fantasy.
Oh wow. You feel that vibe? Now this guy fucks. This dude is clearly smashing puss 24/8. That's right, 24/8. They had to invent a new day of the week he's plowing that much. Everytime he walks by a Victoria's Secret there's an small earthquake from all the panty dropping. . He's literally banned from Tinder cause bitches were swiping right so hard it was counteracting the earth's rotation.
"Women compete with their peers by attaching to and mimicking the men in their reach that they look up to most."
This is why you will never see a woman raised by a single mother excel in anything. A competitive sport or demanding job? Nope! Mariah Carey? Doesn't exist. Even breathing. They can't do it. Literally can't. They freeze up and start choking because they never had a man to look up to and emulate.