If you tell a “friend” about your victories and they aren’t genuinely happy for you, then they’re not really your friend.

You’ll never unsee it now.

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but maybe your victories are ridiculous and you just don't know it and can't see it. For example. Let's say you bragged about getting 2 vaccines and 2 boosters.

Is your friend supposed to be happy about that? Your friend may just be trying to help you see the truth and is really a friend that cares about you, they're just to stupid to see it.

this is an important possibility to consider!

yes, the original note still applies.

a genuine friend can see past differences and still care about the other person. a friend definitely doesn't call their friend stupid for making personal health decisions.

you don't have to be happy about it. you can still make your stance known by sharing your research and evidence. it can be a tacit understanding that you guys have different viewpoints.

based 🫡

Is this victory in the room with us right now 😦🤣

I find this to be a more common problem among women. I can't imagine being jealous of another friend's success. It just inspires me to do better.

Agreed!

It's true.