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Everyone sees themselves as the victim in their story.

Not me.

I take ownership of everything that happens to me.

If someone hurts me, it’s because I allowed them close enough to do so.

If no one helps me, it’s because I’ve chosen to stand on my own.

Nothing outside of me has the power to stop me.

All resistance is internal, and what I carry inside is what I project outward.

Everything is within my control because everything begins within me.

Victim mentality robs individuals of agency to affect change within their lives

Ownership, on the other hand, is empowering

Taken to the extreme, ownership for everything can lead to self-hate if enough goes wrong because, after all, everything is your fault

A tension exists between ownership and self-love that must be balanced and lived within

Too far on one side is self-importance and too far on another is self-destruction

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Amen to each an every word. I'm personally working on finding that balance between ownership and self-love 💜

I take ownership for everything because on a higher level I know that I chose it all.

When things appear to go wrong I try not to judge them as such, I look for the value because if there was no value there, I wouldn't have chosen it.

I'm learning to love myself unconditionally by loving everything & everyone unconditionally. It's hard sometimes but I do my best.

It's all a mirror 🪞