Victim mentality robs individuals of agency to affect change within their lives
Ownership, on the other hand, is empowering
Taken to the extreme, ownership for everything can lead to self-hate if enough goes wrong because, after all, everything is your fault
A tension exists between ownership and self-love that must be balanced and lived within
Too far on one side is self-importance and too far on another is self-destruction
Amen to each an every word. I'm personally working on finding that balance between ownership and self-love 💜
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I take ownership for everything because on a higher level I know that I chose it all.
When things appear to go wrong I try not to judge them as such, I look for the value because if there was no value there, I wouldn't have chosen it.
I'm learning to love myself unconditionally by loving everything & everyone unconditionally. It's hard sometimes but I do my best.
It's all a mirror 🪞
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