Everyone sees themselves as the victim in their story.

Not me.

I take ownership of everything that happens to me.

If someone hurts me, it’s because I allowed them close enough to do so.

If no one helps me, it’s because I’ve chosen to stand on my own.

Nothing outside of me has the power to stop me.

All resistance is internal, and what I carry inside is what I project outward.

Everything is within my control because everything begins within me.

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Just listened to your entire recent podcast and feeling freshly radicalized.

Not everyone. Let's not speak that way. You aren't the only one taking ownership 💪

True. But it’s very very common.

I agree. You stand out like a wolf. Keep it up. Remember, you aren't alone. I preach radical responsibility. Done with the victim shift.

Thanks for the zaps. Thats huge. Appreciate it.

Stoic as fuck.

Man I love the Zen Warrior HODL ♾️ 🧡

💯

Looks like I won’t be going to Israel then. Fine.

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If you reframe your life through the above... your current situation and the reasons for it completely change. This is causing some pretty deep introspection nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7etyv4hzumn0wd68ytnvv9hxgqtxwaehxw309anxjmr5v4ezumn0wd68ytnhd9hx2tmwwp6kyvtjw3k8zcmp8pervct409shwdtwx45rxmp4xseryerdx3ehy7f4v3axvet9xsmrjdnxw9jnsuekw9nh2ertwvmkg6n5veen7cnjdaskgcmpwd6r6arjw4jsqgq6lcx8fc7h0p8t4ya9u0a92jnwavqe9rgjwwdw3wjgxfuxsz8rd5mths8c, damn you :)

It’s all you. It always was. It’s freeing when you finally accept it.

I agree. You are absolutely the creator of your reality and have the power to change your life at any time if you feel it’s appropriate.

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Absolutely! True power comes from owning your life and mindset 💪✨

Yeah ... it all comes from within us. 💥💯✨️ Strong mentality 💪 👏 ✨️

The difference between victims and victors: one studies their wounds, the other studies their weapons.

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Victim mentality robs individuals of agency to affect change within their lives

Ownership, on the other hand, is empowering

Taken to the extreme, ownership for everything can lead to self-hate if enough goes wrong because, after all, everything is your fault

A tension exists between ownership and self-love that must be balanced and lived within

Too far on one side is self-importance and too far on another is self-destruction

Amen to each an every word. I'm personally working on finding that balance between ownership and self-love 💜

I take ownership for everything because on a higher level I know that I chose it all.

When things appear to go wrong I try not to judge them as such, I look for the value because if there was no value there, I wouldn't have chosen it.

I'm learning to love myself unconditionally by loving everything & everyone unconditionally. It's hard sometimes but I do my best.

It's all a mirror 🪞

I see myself as the lucky bastard who just always keeps winning even though I'm basically lazy as crap

Radical ownership 🎯 . Blame is a trap. The second you outsource responsibility, you hand over your power.

But admitting when you feel powerless is also strength, because it’s real. Honesty is what keeps us men from numbing out. From turning into a Goggins...hard as hell but 3x divorced.

This faggot and his cult leader bullshit is getting annoying. Time to mute him and all his followers on the gay platform.

What the fuck 😂

If it was like that it would be really easy. But it's not. Most of the shit that happens to you, outside of you, inside of you, you do not control. To think everything is under one's control is downright delusional or plain naif.

This is the most useful mindset to live your life through.

Who the fuck is “everyone”? Are you praising yourself on a public forum, in a manor that actually projects insecurity by asking for validation.

You sure you good brother?

People seem to love listening to this guy talk about how wise he is. I’ve never understood the appeal.

Trying to sell some profundity that’s never even been in stock

A prophet is only without honor in his hometown.

It’s all good if you don’t like me. I’m not asking you to.

I don’t follow you. Nor do I block you.

And if you continuously post self righteous BS, you should expect to get called out on it from time to time.

Okie dokie

You can just be the man without constantly telling everyone you’re the man.

I’m great. You ok my guy?

I think so. Just had all blood work done not too long ago, all was well. Don’t have to take any pills.

Glad to hear

Thanks

Hyperbole escapes you my friends.

He was being hyperbolic? You sure, have you seen his vlogs?

I have.

K

Did you just read this? 🫡👍

Haven’t read it, but my hunch is I’d agree with it.

Ahh yes the Jew kill squad let’s all support them and demonize the WHITE SS 🙄

I read it, and it's a powerful book.

So I just watched Fight Club, first thing I see is this. Feel like I could run through a fucking wall right now.

Take your wounds, collect your scars, pick yourself up, breathe, keep fighting the good fight. What doesnt kill you, makes you stronger.

"so let's enjoy, guys

Life is happening right now

No fear

Let's live and enjoy

It's cool that we don't know

What is going to happen

And take the risk

You know

I think the best moments of my life

We're when I took the risk

And lived the moment

So let's live

Move yourself

Let's go

You can try something new

You know?

Try to say something you've never said before

It's ok

Every is an experience

And that's how we evolve"

Gabriel Medina

https://youtu.be/jU5C1-DGP00

I don't believe you can blame yourself for a tough childhood. Nothing one can do about that. It affects you. Takes a long time to come to terms with and build up.

My view is that you have to take responsibility for your childhood, because even though you were a child those patterns are still in you today and realizing that they are internal is key to fixing/healing them.

When we shift to gratitude for our particular story, our "weaknesses" become our best gifts. I was a victim for a long time. Now I feel like my story is the best one because it makes me, me. My favorite person. I take care of me first. That makes it easier to help others.

Blaming yourself for a tough childhood and taking responsibility for a touch childhood are not the same. The former is punishment, the latter is empowerment. The former is, "I deserved it," the latter is, "I didn't deserve it, but I'm also responsible to find my healing." The former is about accepting lies, the latter is about accepting the truth, and allowing God into those spaces to show you the truth about yourself, and Him. Because the truth about you and God will heal you.

I wish everyone thought this way.

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You are nearly to read Enquiridion from Epictetus.

You don't know you are a stoic until you discover this philosophy from ancient Greeks.

I bet you will feel 100% identified with its principles.

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I fucked it up. I am the culprit in my story no one else

Don’t listen to people who refuse to NAME THE JEW

There are many people who identify as Aryans where I live but are not and are of the synagogue of satan

I don’t identify as aryian I identify as something far worse 😈😈😈 WHITE HILLBILLY REDNECK come play in my woods!! We got mt dew and shotguns 🏴‍☠️🏴‍☠️

Relax bro. My genome ain’t allowed in your country. It’s all yours. Hunt as many coons and squirrel you like

We call them Mexicans around here 🫡☮️

😁

I refuse to take responsibility for shit that’s rigged against me 💯

Fake quote.

Jew 🫵🏻

Excellent argument. Can you cite the qoute or you just post fake memes?

Only Jews want citations you just proved yourself guilty!! Now for my next magic trick I’ll make you use a word that ends in “ist” or “ism” AAANNNDDD GO!! 😜

I don't give a shit about Jews or isms, you faggot. You posted a fake quote. That's pathetic.

Jew!! Only a Jew would say its fake with no evidence to it being fake!! Your just made this makes the white man wanna lynch you in the parking lot while your scraping your windows this winter 🥷🖤

The burden of proof is on you to prove it's a real quote, retard

Amen

Not everyone. I would say most successful people take ownership. I think Jocco made a ton of money off this concept. GOOD!

If you make resistance your ally, you can become freer.

Resistance in your outer world points to the area in you where the real conflict lies.

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So True... being the king in my life... Everything happens because I allow it.

This is how we can #Nostr use web clients fuck the app stores

Branching realities.

You speak with too much confidence and it shows that you haven't experienced enough life yet. If you were born as a girl in Afghanistan or a boy in the middle of Africa, you wouldn't be saying that. You're not powerful, you're just lucky.

You don’t know what I’ve experienced or not buckaroo lol

That guy sounds salty 🤭

He do lol he really do

🤭

Sure, you've had tough times in your life, like everyone else, but the pressures of life can be overwhelming. Many of the things that happen in our lives are beyond our control, and fate can bring down anyone, no matter how powerful, if it so chooses.

You a bot? This shit sounds very gpt like

No, I'm just a deterministic nihilist who uses Google Translator because my English is not good.

Oh ok got it 👌

What an interesting back and forth, love how you genuinely reply in earnest to all with open curiosity.

That’s one of the things nostr is good for

The worst thing that happened to you is the worst thing that happened to you

“I take responsibility over my life and work to control my environment.”

“Oh yeah? Well, what if you were born as an African boy??”

Lmfao.

Goodonya amigo, a very common trait amongst those that take ownership and secure generational wealth as best we can without relying on others. Powerful being in control of your future 👊

This would land better if in vee log form

‘Everyone’ wot

Hyperbole

Same with health

You are different

Spoken like a true stoic. I applaud you sir.

Thank you sir

Everything is relational and we are all interconnected. To think otherwise is dangerous and ultimately destructive to humanity and nature.

GOOD

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