Idk if he believed they wanted to fuck their moms but that there was attraction for the opposite sex parent. My psychology professor in college said she used to always think that Freud’s theories were nonsense until she had a son and he told her, as a toddler, that he wanted to marry her. I used to think that too as a baby but it wasn’t sexual and I grew out of the jealousy phase toward my dad. I also used to think that girls were just boys that had their dicks chopped off.
Regarding abuse fantasies, it is well documented that some adult women have rape fantasies but it doesn’t necessarily mean they want to be raped. I think it’s more a desire to submit totally to a man they want. It might be a primal urge that stems from our early primate ancestors. Aggression/dominance in the animal kingdom is perceived to be strong so there is a weird line where women are attracted to dangerous men but also want to feel safe. Sexuality is very complex haha it’s partially a social construct. A lot of things people find sexually attractive are relative to the times we live in. People weren’t eating ass 50 years ago 😂
