As a woman, I can confidently say I can handle the trash that gets thrown or will get thrown at me on here. I’ve not had a negative experience from men or anyone nor do I invite it.

But that’s also because I’ve been one tough cookie my whole life. Attacks or harassment mean nothing to me because I don’t allow anyone behind a phone or computer to ruin a moment of my day.

I don’t live in this space. I have an actual real life I thoroughly enjoy. Go touch snow.

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So because I find things hurtful, I don’t have a life? I’m confused.

No. I simply know how to separate my real life from this space.

It’s the reason I use a pseudonym. I have many different names, that I use in different situations. It’s the only way to function in today’s world and to protect one’s sanity.

I wish I could touch snow... It's spring here and the flowers are pretty, though.

I can send snow your way beave.. with some Sahara sand. lol

Things like this should be common sense but hey. Whatcha gunna do.

Completely agree, or touch the grass if there’s no snow 😂💜

Let’s trade!

Well you’ll probably get water or an empty container filled with mountain air by the time it gets to 🇦🇺 😄

As long as it’s cool I’ll take it!

You can have the heat and humidity here, I’m over it! Bring on Winter! 💜🫂

You're a wonderful bitch at times lol..😉🫂♥️

So far, I believe we have a community who understands and keeps most of the details of their personal lives private, as they should. The whole point of this place is freedom (at least most dev positions), if you put too much of yourself out there your going to attract attention. I feel like you should just be ready for it, that doesn't excuse morally wrong behavior to be clear.

> I don’t allow anyone behind a phone or computer to ruin a moment of my day.

Exactly the attitude that makes sense IMO, very few of us on here know each other (or will ever meet each other)

I swear I break my signing server wayyyy too often to spend much time on nostr.