> If you respectfully keep suggesting you'd like to try talking to her my gut feeling is she's the type to try again

At this point, it seems incumbent upon her to convince me that she's a worthy conversation partner.

Someone who engages for hours in discussions only to suddenly snap out of nowhere and mute me / call me an assshole. I was truly caught off guard. It was clear to me that we were pretty far apart and not understanding each other well yet, but I didn't realize it had come to that.

Talking with people who react that way is at best disappointing and at worst a waste of time that tends to have the side-effect of adding an unjustified "stink" to oneself in the eyes of onlookers. (I'm now "another one of those guys laeserin had to mute". cool.)