you can just go visit your grandma
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In heaven? (Or hell maybe) In due time for sure, but not today 🤣
Go visit all your grandparents or simply make a call to hear their voices.
Try telling a joke to make them smile, even just once more.
They deserve a smile and love.
Do it wholeheartedly, and you will be blessed.
No can do, sir
Today marks two years since she passed away
She was everything to me
I spent practically my whole life with her
I'm going to visit her at her grave
My another grandma is recovering from a disease but I'm also want to visit her
I can't
I have finally been around the sun enough times and studied neurobiology and intergenerational trauma integration and growth enough to have finally realised that all those rituals in other more traditional cultures about honouring the ancestors, yeah well, kinda makes good sense. So, to structure our thinking by reflecting on their experiences, to show some gratitude and to make sense of our own behavioural patterns by respecting theirs really works. That’s a complicated way of saying, dead or alive, you can just visit your grandparents and be curious about them and theirs
Just doing it rn☺️