ok im back to share something else really unflattering about me

merry christmas or whatever

and also, this may be helpful for anyone else in a jam, or maybe not, maybe it is a weird workaround solution that works for few or just me

it is unflattering objectively

it isnt a nice thing to feel or think, im not recommending it, im just saying, like yea use if in a really tight jam im just saying it isnt attractive or complimentary to anyone involved, think about it long enough, and def highly offensive and objectifying to the other party

anyway,

when i am excruciatingly lonely, i ask myself: how much of my idea of being in a relationship is about gender validation

as in, soothing

being validation, too. 'i guess i am a being enough that someone wants to hang out a lot. at least made it to family pet status.'

is that not lowkey on some sociopath shit and also objectifying or what

like thanks for being the presence that validates me by wanting to cuddle that's crazy