ok im back to share something else really unflattering about me
merry christmas or whatever
and also, this may be helpful for anyone else in a jam, or maybe not, maybe it is a weird workaround solution that works for few or just me
it is unflattering objectively
it isnt a nice thing to feel or think, im not recommending it, im just saying, like yea use if in a really tight jam im just saying it isnt attractive or complimentary to anyone involved, think about it long enough, and def highly offensive and objectifying to the other party
anyway,
when i am excruciatingly lonely, i ask myself: how much of my idea of being in a relationship is about gender validation
as in, soothing
being validation, too. 'i guess i am a being enough that someone wants to hang out a lot. at least made it to family pet status.'
is that not lowkey on some sociopath shit and also objectifying or what
like thanks for being the presence that validates me by wanting to cuddle that's crazy
