Since I’ve been here, I’ve had dudes zap me, find out I have a husband, and then demand their sats back (more than once).

I think we are confusing the purpose of zaps…if you zap me, I don’t owe you shit unless you provide some value your damn self.

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Seriously? WTF?!

Like ooo I gave her money, she’s mine 😂

That's how government programs work. "Pay up, we gave you stuff."

Yup pretty much

Wooooow. Some dudes are down bad.

It’s comical how archaic the thinking can be 😂

This is so fucked up - what the fuck is wrong with guys!!! Just have a giggle and move on losers!

.......I should be more surprised, but honestly I'm kind of not.

Some people's kids.

also, what are married women supposed to do: shrivel up and die? We wanna talk to friends too 😂

Yup! 🤣🤣

NO FRIENDS FOR YOU!

😂😂😂😭

You're living proof that once you get married you don't just shrivel up and die. 🤣

🫂😂trying

You could write a book about it. Best seller 😁🎉

Ooo. Does that require effort? Because I’m allergic 😂

depends how much you are good with AI, maybe just from your notes some chapter could be already written ahahah

anyway don't ask me, I can't even read.

I’ve barely dipped my toe into AI yet, but probably one day

Wait…what? They wanted a refund?

I even gave a refund once because I didn’t wanna hear it 😂 I’m done with that

That’s crazy 🤣🤣

The monetary component we have here really brings out some odd behaviours

We out here buying people on the internet

What’s crazy is that you only find out they bought you afterwards, once they figure out you’re married 🙄

Imagine being smart enough to set up a lightning wallet but also dumb enough to think nost is onlyfans with refunds

Righhhht? 😂🪦

Yeah for real! If I'm not mistaken, even OnlyFans doesn't have refunds. It's called consent. You volunteered the money, the other party gave no promise of anything for it.

Don’t drink and zap or something 🤷‍♀️

Don't tell the simps this

Entitlement really is one of the most disgusting things. This is where we get government from. This kind of thinking is why we can't have nice things.

nostr:nevent1qqsdd5n06lxmmtetfjdea52gm3zk5x7yt2hlzsxsy782afrkvxxmj4qpr4mhxue69uhkummnw3ezucnfw33k76twv4ezuum0vd5kzmp0qgszd44fgen4ucpl3hjt7muuaazzqdahp3lwu9c07phdweelcdxf3ugrqsqqqqqpvknxr8

Send them back 1 sat ⚡️

from now on 🤝

I figured out the missing step from the meme!

1. Send an invoice.

2. Tell them it's the fee for the refund.

3.Don't give back the difference for the refund.

4. Profit.

Damn I have so many regrets rn

I said send refund or bobs please.

58 sats is generational wealth, c'mon!

😂😂😂I was bought and payed for from another rando w 21 sats, sorry

Omg lol 😂

People 🙄

The thirstiness is real 🤤

You’re saying *multiple* dudes have done this?

LMAOOO

That's it no more zaps for u. 😅

Evidentally 😭

😂😂😂😂😂

I'd zap you and/or your husband 50,000 sats to repost this reply or the attached image. I think I've reposted stuff from you before too

🤣 🤣 🤣

this true?

Sauce? Screen grabs?

I've never zapped you; can I have some sats now that you have a husband?

Smooth

LoL

you don't owe anyone here shit even if they provide value 💪🏼🤣

I just zapped you so I expect you to put out now.

Yup. You own me for life now 😂

Embarrassing behavior

Right? Desperate and sad

receiptttssssss

😂

I’m gonna have to go back in time and unmute two accounts for that, so you’re probably just gonna have to take my word for it 🤷‍♀️😂 or not, I don’t really care

oh ya dont do that, woulda been just for the lullz

If I see it in my travels, I will blast that shit 🫂

😂😂😂🪦

"demand the sats back" ?😆

"because they found out you have a husband"? 😂

Really?? wtf! 😞

you have a husband??!! THIS is unacceptable!!!😁🧡💜

...Give the dudes npubs..they deserve it

I really might once I get on my computer and Nostrudel. It hasn’t been in months and I muted them both

Never unmute the muteds

It’s definitely a hassle which is why I haven’t done it yet😂

Either my mute isn’t working or someone keeps making new npubs once muted…

That blows. I got a good handle on my mutes finally🙏 it’s been real peaceful around here

Jealous

Wow, that's... interesting social behavior.

How outside of your mind you have to be to think about requesting the money back?

Like, is the single last brain cell that holds their ears from falling off not registering the situation at all?

The one npub I remember the most clearly, had his real face as his pfp and he looked dumb af

I have a wife, but I’m still comfortable with you zapping this reply.

As you should 🫂

Somebody didn't read the TOS. .0001 satoshis equal sex with no questions asked and a breakfast burrito in the morning.

Damnit. When am I gonna get a breakfast burrito in the morning? 😭😭😭

Better get to zapping.

Thirsty dudes need to get a girlfriend.

Amen and one in their own league 😂😭🫂

Sounds like you've had some low-grade trash zapping you then cuz that's just rude lol

Sure have. Way more quality zaps than trash zaps tho, so it’s a net positive

What!?! Husband?!? I thought you were a bot. Refund please! ↩️

🫡😂

Sadly there seems to be a growing trend of people expecting something just because they helped or gave you something. Almost like friendships or interactions becoming conditional. Do these guys hassle every woman they've "liked" on instascam or facecrook for their "like" back if they find out a girl is attached or simply not interested in them? 🤔

Fellas if you're reading this and haven't been told yet -if you like someone's content and you zap them, that person doesn't owe you a damn thing except maybe a thank you. If you want transactional short term satisfaction there is an entire industry dedicated to that!

#beexcellenttoeachother

I’m honestly not sure because nostr is my first social media so I can’t really compare my experience to anything 🤷‍♀️

Damnit I couldn’t zap this

"short term satisfaction" ??

can you elaborate? 😂

Not even sure i zapped you, but I'd like a redund.

Demanding the Sats back sounds like a pussy.

Retardation is a hell of a drug

What the hell woman? That's a great note and it's gonna be zapped! ⚡

Now, as you're married, I want my funds back ASAP. Thanks. 🤷

Yup and it’s uncomfortable as fuck 😂

What? Random dudes thinking they're gonna score with a 10 cents zap? Who would have thought 🤣

Only fans have people confused

Look, I’ll still zap and your husband can join. Deal?

😂🪦

I guess so. I wouldn't know.

But Nostr? Of all the places you can go to? Nostr ? Maaaannn! How dumb it's that? 🤣🤣

Husb..what? I request a refund of the 10 bitcoin I zapped you.

Maidenless behaviour

Well said!! 😃

fuck you mean demand zaps back?

🫶🧡

Wait you have a husband? I need a refund

Hahha ok

Is your wallet down?

Idk lol

I figured it out

thank you haha 🫂