Love language = cuck language.
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I have been beating this Dead Horse for years...
Always good to bring it back up everyonce and awhile.
If you can embarrass the right type of guy, it'll lead to him waking up and helping himself, therefore helping his house.
Why is doing nice things for your spouse =cuck
It's a generalisation. If you've got one of the 8 women on earth that don't disrespect a nice guy, good on you.
When I describe my relationship to people they say "bases trad wife" and she's become that way from her own interest, not trying to be.
Give me an example.
In most cases, guys who are frequently providing accommodation gifts are hurting the relation by diluting, displacing, and monopolizing her role as a helpmate.
The nicest thing you could do for your wife is lead her, be a man, and reserve the emotional space (including 'doing nice things') for her and the children.
Wife likes quality time over gifts, so her presents are experiences vs actual gifts
Give me an example of some experiences.
Eg a concert vs some object
I'm not convinced that sponsoring your wife's independent hobbies/pleasures are the way to a lasting relationship.
Better, IMHO, to simply take her on the adventures that amuse you, showing off the best side of yourself and what your house has to offer.
Yeah, this isn't the issue. (It's not a coincidence that your wife says the same thing most women do btw)
The issue is that "Love Languages" are about emotions and get trotted out primarily as post hoc rationalizations for a woman being dissatisfied with her man. A woman can just move the goalposts AND when a guy says his love language is physcial touch, lambast him for being shallow. Guys who fall into the trap of thinking this can EVER solve the core issue are "beta cuck simps." Hence the OP.
I dont understand what you're saying, in my relationship, we simply use it as a framework for how to show love to eachother. Words of affirmation and quality time are mine, so I feel love from her when she cooks me dinner and gives me an atta boy. Hers are acts of service and quality time, so she wants me to plan the dates and she feels loved when I make her coffee or whatever
It's not your fault that so many other people have used this framework to perform relationship diagnostics fraud.
Essentiall, the model breaks as soon as either or both parties decide they're not going to use it honestly. And because its implicietly egalitarian, it is more predisposed to intentional abuse than other models.
Every model can be broken. Some are just more fragile than others. This is the "counting calories" of relationship models. Red Pill stuff is the "counting macros" of models.