GM šŸŒž A few thoughts on #censorship: I partially understand why disordered eating is a very heavily censored subject on social media - bc pro-ana people are icky - but how do we heal a wound that cannot reliably be discussed?

I made a post yesterday about my recovery from chronic under-eating, and I felt like I had to choose my words very carefully to not attract the red flag from #TikTok. So far, so good, but it’s always interesting to me when whole topics (eating disorder, suicide, sexual assault, war, etc) are considered too dangerous to discuss. Maybe they’re just too hard to moderate so censorship-via-keyword-flag is a result of laziness at scale? Haha. Idk. Censorship is funny. Thoughts?

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Some of the craziest business decisions often seem to be the result of trying to protect the company from 'ambulance chasers' using the least amount of effort as possible. Maybe it stems from generations of people processed through a public education system that relies too much on collective punishment?

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glad you can discuss here

Indeed

People fall for all sorts of things and will sometimes follow others in doing something crazy. Suicide is one of those things. You can trigger a lot of on-the-edge people with the ā€œrightā€ message. It’s understandable why it’s not a good idea to keep that content up.

People also believe stupid nonsense, and sometimes things that are just taken out of context but look legit.

I can understand the need for looking out for more vulnerable people but also realize this ā€œlooking outā€ can and is often abused.

Fact is, there are people who are not intelligent and will do stupid things based on what they see. It’s not their fault. We could say, let nature do its thing and let them all win the Darwin Award, or we could say we’ll look out for you.

It’s a tough subject with lots of nuance. I don’t know if there’s any easy answer to how to handle it best.

Yeah I certainly wouldn’t say suicide is down to stupidity. Having been up close and personal with both sides, it’s a heartbreaking topic.

Dead people aren’t always stupid. It’s a pretty calculated move. It’s devastating.

Sure. I didn’t mean that they are. Separate point. Even discussing this online is not easy so I won’t say any more. This sort of thing requires in person discussion.

Agreed, there’s so much to it.

Yeah there’s a fine line between patronizing (like fathering, but in this case in a big brother way) and protecting. For example there was an atrocious Logan Paul video one time - I probably don’t even have to reference it for y’all to know the one - and I was glad it was removed from YouTube. So in that way I guess I am pro censorship haha but I took a whole class on grief, death, and dying once and if I wanted to talk about what I learned in that class it would be immediately flagged for using the D word šŸ’€ it’s just a weird thing that I grapple with sometimes

As a mental I probably have some things to say on this. However, given this is a permanent record I don’t think I want to.