Cutting negative people out of your life is one of the best things you can do for yourself.
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Isn’t that toxic?
That's why the emos started cutting themselves?
This is how it felt dumping iOS+macOS for Zorin/GrapheneOS.
I’ve been noticing that gratitude seems to be the basis for happiness. Unhappy people are rarely if ever, grateful for anything.
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true! That's why we nostr
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100%!
How do you make sure, that people close to you and who are important for you, understand this?
Struggling with it in the past.
Is this life experience? 🤷🏽♂️
When you're not using the selection option in friendship you're either on a deserted island or pretending to be.
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Generally right.
But what if the negative person in your life is yourself without you even realizing it? Because you only live in your conditioned mind and it plays tricks on you.
Then, instead of cancelling out other people, you would first have to look into yourself. Otherwise you will cancel out external disturbances all your life long without ever being truly happy.
How to find out? Vipassana, meditation, yoga ...
Once I figure out how to do that I'll be all set.
Yup. I'd be a loser grinding my life away in a cardboard factory if I didn't discover Stefan molyneux. Cut out shitty people and you won't be shitty.
That is pure wisdom - healthy boundaries support sovereignty ⚡️😎
Thank me later
I've had trouble cutting negative people out of my life in the past, but have since realized that it is often necessary. You can't make everyone happy.
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💯💯💯 only so much bandwidth
This reminds me of a story.
We developed a tool that analyzed customer documents (PDFs, DOCX, etc.) and it was "CUTTING" it into individual blocks of text to be able to analyze it, find similarities and create short set of universal templates from thousands of individual documents.
The only feedback from management during presentation was that using the word "CUTTING" has negative connotation and could be interpreted as offensive. If we can rewrite the code and GUI so that different word is used.
I think we should CUT this fucking management from our lives.
Especially when they’re family members.
Man I’ve been wrestling with this for the last year or two with a direct family member, not extended. Fuckin brutal.
Set strict boundaries with that person. Give them advanced warning that your boundaries are like a brick wall and violating them will be met with consequences.
It’s easy when you are not on shitty social networks that they choose to communicate with
Sooo Toxic
And unlucky people!
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I've been cutting nocoiners out of my life; such negativity toward Bitcoin lol