It's probably all of that. Plus other stuff. Slow down is ok, I think. I got anon zapped 1k sats on a laughing emoji once... reckless (if you're still out there, anon, I'll never forget that 🤣💜)
I've been oddly surprised by what people find meaningful enough to part with their money over, myself included. There's still a lot to learn about "what's valuable" when the usual rules no longer apply.