This is extreme. Hard disagree.

Someone harmed you? It was not your fault.

Getting trapped in an abusive relationship was NOT YOUR FAULT. You do not need to take accountability for it.

Getting mugged, attacked, enduring harassment. It’s really not your fault.

Bad things happen all the time and they will happen to you in your life. It’s not your fault.

Take accountability for what you can but bad things happen to good people and it’s really not your fault.

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We have completely different life philosophies Joe.

Yeah I’m all for stoicism and like to read the stoics but IMO the above sentiment takes you down a dark path. I was surprised in the comments I saw that no one had challenged your viewpoint

My viewpoint is called reality

Your viewpoint is your perspective of reality.

No.

Ok. Just asking a question here.

Haven't you stated on numerous occasions about the benefits of an open mind?

I'm not sure taking advice from someone who although might have good intentions doesn't actually have a deep understanding of how & why humans think & behave the way they do. It's all feel-good advice from Hodl, but that's all it is & sometimes he is wrong and from what I see he pushes back everytime someone challenges him on something he's posted. But as his wife says he is "intense" so he continues with his inspirational posts. It's all about his ego.

You have accountability and fault as symptoms. They aren’t.