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It's never enough but it's also way more than I expected. I don't know exactly what's "middle-aged" in English, but I really hope you're at least 38.

I had no idea that sugar daddy sites are a thing. I expected them to exist, but more in a crappy Reddit style. And as a porn niche, obviously. Normally, I would ask you about the BDSM club, but now I'm more curious about a sugar daddy experience that was out of the ordinary. In my mind, this would be the perfect opportunity for me to manifest myself as the freak I crave to be because suddenly I'd have an excuse, "I did it for the money".

PS: Here's something about me. 40 yo, soon to be 41, widow, Combat Medic Specialist (trainer), and now I work in the private sector but in a totally unrelated domain. I don't date much, it feels weird. I'm also not over my husband and I can't fall asleep next to another man, I'm acting weird. A quick fuck is fine but I prefer a woman, I have fewer issues in my behaviour.

An Obvious Alt 7mo ago 💬 1

Oh, duh, now I get the 38 or more comment. Yeah, she's over 30. And the club apparently cards (looks at ID cards) pretty heavily. She's really just a friend, though I did meet her through WYP.

I don't know how active it is where you are, but there's a dating app called Feeld that is all about kink, BDSM, that sort of thing. I've had absolutely zero luck on there, but I'm an average looking older dude, so I wouldn't be surprised if you could set up a scene of the sort you often talk about on here via that app.

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La Brunette 7mo ago

The sex scenery is legal and vast in here, but everything is filmed, and I'm not ok with this. I tried a website at some point but it felt like it was more for lonely people to brag. Tinder used to be somehow nice but everyone felt fake. I had more fun recently in Italy in a lesbian bar. It was a one-time thing but I went all in. Black biker boots, black tight leather pants, black crop top, black eyeliner, and so on. I wanted to let them see every muscle that I worked on all these years and to impose "who's the boss" from the moment I stepped in. Sexually, it wasn't a big deal, but I had a lot of fun slapping a chick while her girlfriend was watching. Also, some hair pulling, choking, etc. I want to go harder on a different occasion, to test a few limits.

Anyway, it wasn't a proper BDSM experience, at least how I imagine it.

An Obvious Alt 7mo ago

Yeah, I have no experience, except a little impact play and violet wand play a few years ago. I'm interested in exploring, but I also don't really feel the need to, if I find someone to be with who isn't interested in it.