If you’ll allow it, sometimes your family are actually mentally disabled and once you realize that and just treat them like mentally disabled people it gets a lot easier. Imagine staying mad at a hamster? It’s near impossible.
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There are some adults that I've realized that I need to treat like the children of other people, but they are their own parent as well.
You kinda just set your boundaries and hope their parents actually come in and impose some discipline, knowing full well they won't.
And sometimes those adults are
Your parents and their parents are dead.