Nostr Web Client

wuwi 10mo ago

God is alive, magic is afoot

wuwi 1y ago

#doing

wuwi 1y ago

they should come up with a nostr client that works

wuwi 1y ago

hehe funny hex code

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6 look like b

wuwi 1y ago

sharing kindness is an easy feat! ^_^

wuwi 1y ago

“Every day, once a day, give yourself a present. Don't plan it. Don't wait for it. Just let it happen. It could be a new shirt at the men's store, a catnap in your office chair, or two cups of good, hot black coffee.”

― Dale Cooper

Replying to

purrs_for_Her

interesting perspective about the maternal urge and women not wanting children as much by default, but that they want to give them to a good man. i can't really argue with that since i'm not a woman lol—but is that how you felt?? though, that kind of makes sense because it's reckless and immature to just want a child and accept any sperm donor...

my thoughts in general are that the standard for men has changed the in modern era. protecting and providing itself isn't enough in the first world because it's nearly a default. women looking for marriage are typically looking for more than financial stability to feel loved. this means men have to bring better emotional support, shared responsibilities, and partnership qualities to the relationship.

the expectations for new mothers are grueling—especially if they have to work. having to manage multiple roles makes motherhood much less appealing. if the father isn't involved in supporting her during this time it leads to feelings of isolation and resentment. so as men, if we want children, we should be doing everything we can to ensure women that we can reduce that burden.

but i did enjoy the read because i never really thought about things from this perspective. it makes me think. :3

thanks for writing and sharing. ^^

wuwi 1y ago

hmmm tbh it is not even standard to provide or support a woman anymore imo? women are expected to be able to take care of themselves on their own, maybe in exchange for the greater personal and economical freedom theyve been granted.

but its terrifying and difficult to have children alone for anyone, man or woman.

even a couple of parents is barely enough, indeed a village is needed to help in taising one human. there has been a breakdown of family and community in our times so that’s definitely also discouraging

i personally have been against having children because i come from a single mother household and it was rough and i have not turned out too well from it myself, and i am afraid of even potentially having to put a child whose life im responsible for through a similar situation. some pretty severe mental conditions have been the outcome and i personally see myself unfit to be a mother. so god forbid even the father would be an unstable wreck.

and also, maybe this is just a generational thing, but so many people currently in their 20s, to me seem extremely ill prepared for adulthood even if they are not boggled down by medical problems. like even though my partner is a wonderful and trustworthy person we are literally both still teaching ourselves to feed ourselves and keep our surroundings tidy and organizing our time properly. like i wouldnt even give a baby to hold to people like us lmao.

wuwi 1y ago

https://nostrcheck.me/media/1e767135751a44c0b06077ddf426c87225e0ed159a3f3d6c5cec18969d94f662/b5f14492591e38a07773a6bf40af0bb16f202d22a7bdf4d8105c4d95dec05639.webp https://nostrcheck.me/media/1e767135751a44c0b06077ddf426c87225e0ed159a3f3d6c5cec18969d94f662/9b9513df4ed0f9779d82da6dfd67a1788f3392f66214290450dad0e509e41ed4.webp

wuwi 1y ago

Me on the left nostr:note17k2psr3cnhkry5lfzwuufkl0ujmzjt4zhppnpse4nawkxtr47zdqtna6qq

wuwi 1y ago

Tomorrow i will surely start living

>wakes up

>doesnt live

Tomorrow i will surely start living

>wakes up

>doesnt live

Tomorrow i will surely start living…