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in my experience this is not true.

confidence is a byproduct of facing your fear with compassion and helping it to relax.

because once you get good at that you realize you actually are an alchemist who can transform his enemies into allies

- which is way more powerful than trying to overpower the fear with some forced confidence.

humans can learn both through

A) increasing pain

or

B) increasing sensitivity to pain

embracing B) can make the time horizon way shorter and smoother

Replying to Avatar preston

Just unsubscribed from Twitter Blue.

Everything nostr:npub1qny3tkh0acurzla8x3zy4nhrjz5zd8l9sy9jys09umwng00manysew95gx keeps telling us about that service is true.

It's deeply disturbing.

Nostr and Bitcoin are our hope people!

congratulations, for another leap in freeing your soul from fiat residues in your system🏆🙏

haha no worries, it's still rarely talked about.

John Carvalho speaks about this in his last interviews at Bitcoin Audible Podcast

or Tony at his Citadel Dispatch about DIDs.

I have thought about this a lot with other plebs at meetups and will write an article to summarize my ideas in the next weeks or so

unfortunately not, thanks for asking though:)

The more (emotionally) sober I become, the more my life becomes a trip.

Replying to Avatar Lyn Alden

I rarely lose my temper, but whenever I do a couple times per year, my writing gets 10x as much reach and likes and shares, and gets basically immortalized. But I'm rarely happy about it when it does.

I still think about this a lot in terms of how I choose to use social media- with reach comes responsibility.

It's both a bad thing and a good thing. On one hand, it's not great that posts based on a combination of emotion and reason get *way* better reach than ones based on more pure reason alone. For "clicks" the best thing I could do for a given post is lose my temper and go all-out on something.

On the other hand, the rare cases where I lose my temper are based on serious built-up frustrations over months. I'm frustrated about something, keep holding it back, and then something becomes intolerable. My socially-compliant self-censorship all unravels at once, not perfectly, but with a clear aspect of *deep* honesty. And people see that honesty because it reflects their own. So it spreads.

So, most of the time, I write carefully, and I know my audience comes from multiple different backgrounds, literally from Indonesian farmers to Wall Street institutional billionaires, and I try to politely move the Overton window from within the Overton window. But a couple times per year, I lose my temper and post my emotional thoughts, which in some ways are more honest, but are also not exactly my ideal self-actualized self.

I end up being grateful for both my constant attempt at control and my rare tempers, because somewhere in the middle is my truth. That blend between controlled reason and built-up emotion is really hard to manage in an era of digital media and semi-immortalized content.

Anyway, I'll post this random stuff on Nostr, not Twitter. You guys and girls get the real thoughts because you're here.

head and heart work best as a team.

emotions contain highly valuable information (if one knows how to process them).

Replying to Avatar Michael Stiller

I agree with nostr:npub1k0fwykqsj7q2la5ttncv9unzf9lawymme8ulu4rwcmfmlsfx48eseq7e9m's statement about the value of keeping books or some value of old communications.

But how do you discriminate the really valuable work from 50 shades of Kardashians breakfast or a teenager selfiesession? 😅

you might be underestimating how much we can learn from the human shadow

also once we implement and use 0-100 scoring of keys/posts instead of likes, signal will go to infinity

Replying to Avatar Caitlin Long

GM fellow Nostriches!

nostr:npub1qny3tkh0acurzla8x3zy4nhrjz5zd8l9sy9jys09umwng00manysew95gx‘s podcast with nostr:npub14mcddvsjsflnhgw7vxykz0ndfqj0rq04v7cjq5nnc95ftld0pv3shcfrlx is a *MUST* listen. Matt opened my eyes to many things happening at Twitter & independent media by putting pieces together for me in a way I hadn’t heard before. We all indeed need to work every day to build #Nostr’s network effects — for most of us, by simply using it more. My goal is to be here every day, and I hope you make it yours too.

h/t nostr:npub1a2cww4kn9wqte4ry70vyfwqyqvpswksna27rtxd8vty6c74era8sdcw83a for the recommendation. I saw your tweet about it & you’re right — it was the most thoughtful content I’d heard in a long time.

🙏

congratulations nostr:npub1qny3tkh0acurzla8x3zy4nhrjz5zd8l9sy9jys09umwng00manysew95gx

all those years of staying true to your principles are paying of. finally a new wave of people are starting to understand privacy.

Ah verstehe, ja da stimme ich dir voll zu.

Auf twitter bekommen die meisten die sich ne Reichweite aufgebaut haben fürs posten aber auch bisher noch mehr Interaktion als hier... die Erfolgsgefühle will keiner missen...

Auch wenn es nicht optimal ist... vielleicht wäre es doch ein guter Übergang einfach jeden post von twitter via bot auf nostr zu kopieren. Wundert mich, dass selbst das keiner macht..