There is something I need to say... and I don't want it to sound potentially misogynistic in any way. I am not in ANY regard. So... here it is: too many women love to play the victim. Gettin' all wound up about why they don't have this or that and trying to convince their partner why they deserve what they want (not what they need). Then (depending on the woman's level of toxicity) she'll begin to shame the man for not giving her what she wants or not being able to. It's even worse when the man has the wealth to get these materials for her but, just doesn't want to. π€£π π€·ββοΈ Also, listen up ladies. Ya need to stop shaming men when they get emotional every now and then. We're all human. We feel emotions just as strongly as you most of the time. Lol. You're in a relationship to support one another, both physically AND mentally. People have too frequent a tendency to forget the latter.
My daughter is the same way towards many of her classmates. She needs to get better at making friends. π
I get it. I'm the same way towards my cousins. They're... simple. π π
Your friends must absolutely adore it when you're constantly correcting them on everything. π π€£
I've always been somewhat speculative about whether my daughter possesses some level of autism. She becomes obsessed with certain things, like a particular song that she'll play on the piano for days (sometimes weeks) on end, or perhaps a painting that she'll try to copy herself to near perfection. She's becoming surprisingly good at playing chess as well. My mum has been teaching her how to play recently. I'll have to get her tested at some point.
Were you straightforward about it or did ya let 'em down easy?
Male logic: "Don't be daft! That'll never happen! π"
Female logic: "Look here... you'll be searching for a mate your entire life if you hold on to standards such as those. I think, deep down, you know I'm talkin' sense here. I'm only tryin' to help you, love! π«"
Lol. Same age my mum was when she married my pops. Also, the same age I was when I enlisted. Right after university.
One quick cup of coffee and she thought they were together?! π Sounds like the kind of woman I would expect to see skulkin' about my front gate if we ever met. π
I was WILD! My old man and I got into plenty of arguments over my irresponsibility. I was a touch spoiled. Shouldn't be a shocker π€·ββοΈ.
Yup, I'm a tad bit jelly that you married young π . How young?
Yea, mine as well. I really ain't upset about that, though. My partying days were truly bonkers. LOL! Just some cocky little shit who thought he was better and knew better than everyone. Joining the military only made it worse, for a time π . I really only drink once or twice on the weekends now. π€·ββοΈ
I've never tried cooking indian food myself. π€ You are giving me some brilliant ideas for my date this Friday though. She's a big seafood fanatic! I'll have to look up some good Indian seafood recipes.
No need to feel any sort of guilt for these women. They do it to themselves. π€·ββοΈ LOL! They choose to put their narcissism on full display. The consequences are their own. They should be perfectly aware that they don't deserve a high-quality bloke. Oh well!
I'm happy for you and your husband, btw. I don't think I'll get married. Honestly, I'm fine with that. Things are plenty cosy as is. I have enough to focus on. Luckily, not dinner though. Nan's over tonight to take care of that. π
I love indian food! But, it's just too bloody spicy most of the time! π₯
Yea, I had a rather severe drinking issue for years after I left the service. Then I knocked up my daughters mum and everything changed almost overnight. π€·ββοΈ
I understand. Alcoholism can make people do some truly loony things. Best of luck with that ππ! For real.
Now, now. No need to sell yourself short, mate.
π That's true! Many ladies nowadays pretty much chase any man that fits some type of heavily romanticized stereotype. Female dating standards can be absolutely mental!
Yes, indeed. I actually just went on my first date in five months last night. My cousin introduced the two of us. Honestly, it was so refreshing to go out with a woman who doesn't stare at you like you're a giant bank account πππ. Gets old right quick π! She's a single parent as well. Works at her local pharmacy. Seein' her again next weekend! π
... lol. I don't get out much. Quite obvious, no?
Its such a bizarre mindset, imo. π€ People like that will put in an immeasurable amount of mental and physical effort in to flaunting everything they've got. Yet, put absolutely none in to expanding their generational wealth for their children (if they ever have any that is). Blokes like this usually just end up leaving their kids with nothin' but debt. π€·ββοΈ And usually have fairly dysfunctional families.