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I've been married for 13 years. We have two kids. Like all married couples with kids, we argue. Sometimes a lot. The trick is not to try and eliminate arguments, that'll never happen, but to get a better perspective as soon as possible. Identify the conflict-driven narratives we tell ourselves.

I share this because it was the first thing that came to mind this morning, as I tried to contextualize the difference between Nostr and Twitter while following two different conversations on the two (very) different platforms.

I've never had a large following on any social media. Not until Bitcoin Ekasi. The Twitter profile there has 16k+ followers, not massive, but by far the largest following I've ever had on any social media.

And what I've noticed is that I get disproportionately 'rewarded' with likes, comments and engagements for writing polarizing and potentially conflict-creating tweets.

Yes, other tweets also do well, but the ones that generate arguments do better.

The difference, I feel, between Twitter and Nostr is like the difference between two moments in a typical marriage.

In one moment you're fighting with your partner, driven more and more, as the conflict escalates, by your own selfish desire to be right. In the next moment (or many moments later) you realise which part of the argument was driven by that desire for conquest and which part (more often than not the smaller part) was driven by actual differences.

Maybe I'm wrong, but when I read comments on Nostr, it just feels like there's more clarity in the conversation, compared to Twitter.

Of course, this description risks being a gross overgeneralization, but it describes the feeling I was left with after two very different interactions.

I think this is correct, platforms like Twitter have been described as an 'outrage machine' because it optimizes for engagement, and conflict is highly engaging. I agree with you that some conflict is necessary and healthy, but it shouldn't be the majority of our discourse.

It's possible that similar dynamics will grow on #Nostr over time. For now, most users just read notes by the people they find interesting, and don't use a fancy algorithm, so at least they don't artificially get pulled into every beef currently happening.

Do you get commissioned for some of these?

Does hot mean attractive? I think right is both hotter and cuter

People complain about Arch being unstable, but Ubuntu LTS about once a year be like

The poll is missing the option "No - go away"

I'm not sure an ETF will be bullish for #Bitcoin price in the short term. I suspect that some whales have been patiently waiting for big "exit liquidity" to dump their huge stacks on.

If this indeed plays out, it may be the last big opportunity to stack cheap sats.

Way ahead of me 😂

Does this mean I can just whisper whatever I want into #nostr and it will magically appear?

(I would put a prominent link to the extension on the highlighter.com page, although I am hesitant to suggest this because I sense you'll send me a highlight to it already existing)

If they only knew, that simply zapping you your salary would make you spin the hamster wheel like mad ⚡

I know - just pointing out the tradeoff. If you deploy this login on your website, your clumsiest users will be bugging you instead of Google/Facebook