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Lady Mae - Growth Teacher
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Mental Wellness Coach and Hypnosis Practitioner | Explore Provocative Ideas, Challenge Perception and Grow Your Mind's Eye. I am a work in progress and I am excited to share my journey with you. Let us grow together! πŸ‘ŒπŸ˜€β€οΈ Free Online Hypnosis πŸ‘‰ https://tinyurl.com/3fpht299

I find it ridiculous when people "DEMAND" to follow them back! It comes off as "entitled" to me!

I understand CTA (Call to Action) if you are offering something or a service perhaps. You can request people to follow you if they want to "CONNECT" with you. But don't ever "EXPECT" that it is given to you!

People inherently follow you if they find you interesting or want to connect with you.

#Nostr is not the same as the centralised platform you used to know so the sooner you get your head around that, the sooner you are less disappointed! πŸ€“

#grownostr #lifelessons #lifecoach

Cheers,

MπŸ’‹

Thanks for sharing! πŸ€“

Replying to Avatar Erik Cason

I’ve been off Twitter and all social media except for Nostr for a month now, and the results are hard to argue with.

I’ve started reading real books again (4 this month) and have noticed both my patience and attention increase noticeably. I also feel less angry and anxiety daily, along with being committed to my workout routine.

I found that Nostr has met my social media needs, most importantly, my own ability to self-limit with it. Nostr is a bit β€˜boring’ compared to traditional social media because ITS NOT TRYING TO KILL YOU!!!

Controlling your own data isn’t nearly as important in terms of ownership, as it is about allowing that information to be used against you. All of your most intimate thoughts and feelings are data mining by massive corporations specifically to find emotional triggers for you, so they can sell you shit, or force thoughts on to you.

Fuck these people that run these companies that farm our emotions to sell us shit, and to work with corrupt government to censor our speech, sell out dissidents, and destroy our internet.

We are much, much, much more powerful than they will ever be because we don’t need force, corrosion, or permission to run these systems of social connections that they cannot destroy.

My month of social media detox has really lifted the veil from the hate industry complex that are all social media companies today. Stop prostitution your content, thoughts and powers to these shitty companies that enrich the scum of the earth, and empower illegal, unconstitutional and immoral government agencies from their dragnet surveillance.

I’ll make one last tweet explaining this and then nuking my account in the next few weeks. Then I’ll be Nostr only.

thank you for sharing your story with us! πŸ‘πŸ’―β€οΈ

welcome to thr #nostr tribe! Don't worry it is normal to feel a lil bit lost because his is new to ypur way of interacting social media.

As someone who is fairly new here like yourself, less than a month of consistent use of Nostr.

Here what I found:

1.) You need to make an effort to find the content, people and tribe that you want to connect with. For starters, explore the hashtag which every Nostr client has it.

2.) Helping guides about Nostr: I posted a note here with the links and feel free to read them:

https://njump.me/nevent1qqsduxtxw6c25xrzajz7ntd7hw9f9lg38fekunrug29g7t9mpsq640spzpmhxue69uhkummnw3ezumt0d5hsygzh9xkejxn7pjugjuww6g6gwkqs27gd2ytq5zdj95xc7ww2wck7zypsgqqqqqqsplxsua

3.) Nostr is new and so does its clients. Therefore, take your time and be patient with it. Importantly, you are thr algorithm. It means you choose which client suits your needs. You may prefer a client that has algorithm like the centralised platforms that feeds onto your attention (luckily this is not available yet but it does not mean technically impossible!) or you could choose clients that are less evasive on your attention, read notes in chronological order or by hashtags or by topics. The topic categories is getting better.

4.) Lastly, if you have questions, I find that using #asknostr is very helpful. A lot of people respond to questions through it because I used it a lot.

I hope this helps and we are excited to have you around! πŸ‘ŒπŸ€“πŸŽ‰πŸ‘

Cheers, M

Love the passion and conviction! πŸ€“πŸ€£

πŸ’― refreshing! Every time I post my notes I asked myself if I am speaking from within or am I asking for validation? The reason why I am here on #nostr is the former: to speak my mind, truthfully and authentic to me and not because I need to conform or belong. I am acutely aware that I am not everyone's cup of tea and I am ok with it! πŸ˜‰πŸ‘Œ

The more I learn about the world and myself,

the more I realised how little did I know.

It shows that our world perception can easily be distorted and can be limited based on our experience and exposure to the world.

I am grateful that I have this luxury and privilige to access this platform.

#selfreflection #reflection #awareness #growthteacher #lifelessons #lifecoach

Cheers,

MπŸ’‹

good to hear. It can be daunting at first because it is new way of connecting with people. But the effort is well worth it!πŸ˜€πŸ‘Œ

This is what I love about the #nostr tribe! Open dialogue without being stone to death by keyboards online! πŸ˜‰β€οΈ

Replying to Avatar melissa

My kids like the internet. A lot of kids enjoy it. My kid has been coding since he was 6 and has a Youtube channel with over 100 videos. Some of his videos have thousands of plays. I'm super amazing over the moon proud of him. He enjoys it. I don't have to nag or encourage - I didn't even know he had been so consistent up until recently. I'm a proud technology loving parent. I grew up in the age of computers and internet, why would I want anything less for my children! 😍

As a family, we are pretty relaxed and run with self-led learning and unschooling while we travel the world. 🌎 I'm good with my children accessing technology and the internet. Others might not be. But as a real world parent of 4 kids aged 2-17, I know what I'm doing. I'm comfortable with my choice to allow my children to experiment with these things that are a part of life this century. πŸ’―

The world 'should' is not a really constructive word. Because every child is unique. Every family is different. Every should is a possible shaming tool to make a parent feel like maybe they aren't doing enough or that they 'should' do it another way. What if I'm not a 'great parent' because I allow my children to buck the trend that a bunch of adults determined as a group 'should not' be the way of great parenting. πŸ’‘

My experience of 8 years home schooling and 4.5 years worldschooling says let the children do what they love. Allow them to thrive. Allow them to be successful in the things that interest them. πŸ’»

Finally. I learn more from my children than I can ever say. πŸ’œ

As adults, sometimes we think we know more than our small people. We put all our energy into studies and evidence and blah blah blah. But the truth is, very little of all that matters. Our children know more than we do. Watch. Observe. Learn from them instead of the adult world which is often speaking from indoctrination.

Living life to the fullest, play, do what we love, having wonderful relationships, hugs, time and adventure together is our priority. πŸ₯°

I'm passionate about this because there is no perfect parenting. No parenting style is without flaws. Far too much emphasis is put on how we micromanage parenting. It is fear based. This is because as parents, it is natural to worry that we are messing up our kids. ❀️

However, the reality is, not one parent gets it perfect. You can be the "perfect" text book parent and still your child can reach adulthood and choose a life you never imagined. Alternatively, you can be the worst parent on the planet and your child might choose a life of incredible success.

I would love to see parents everywhere to chill. Relax. Tap into intuition. Allow discovery and exploration. Allow growth in interest led learning adventures. Drop the rules (I'm a rebel so rules for me are a waste of time) πŸ˜…

If kids are interested in digital life, it isn't a bad thing. πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

And if families give their children devices too young or whatever, the best we can do is learn to accept that what may not be right for us, could be ok for them. It's their journey after all. πŸ’›πŸ’›πŸ’›

Parenting is parenting. It's not easy. It's messy. We beat ourselves up enough as it is. We definitely don't need internet conversations that can make someone feel bad about their parenting choices. πŸ™

More compassion. More love. More encouragement without judgement is whats needed for millennial parents around the world. πŸ₯°

nostr:nprofile1qqsv0j8kgh75tvys2hakcfk3fpeh44ldztw7ehsdfjrhhz8c6svksegpz3mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfduqs6amnwvaz7tmwdaejumr0dsq3kamnwvaz7tmwdaehgu3wwdmkjumn94jku6t8d4sjucmg7du0s2 thank you for sharing your experience and story with us. It is really moving and good to hear some positive experience with your kids on the internet.

Why I started the thread about child safety on here stems from the topic I saw about child exploitation, abuse and child trafficking.

I am not a parent yet myself but have 12 nieces and nephews. However, not everyone is as lucky to have parents like yourself who can provide guidance. Unfortunately, Phils is one of the child trafficking haven to this day. Sadly, it is a result of poverty where parents pushed and forced their kids to do child p*rn online and the demand is high around the world.

Insta is one of the notorious for this.

My point? Every experience differs from each family, from each household. I strongly believe that it is the parents' responsibility to guide their kids of what they are exposed to and the dangers that may arise from it. πŸ˜€

This is really good chat. Cheers! πŸ‘Œ

welcome to #nostr! we are excited to have you here! πŸ˜‰πŸ«°πŸ‘Œ

I second this! I deactivated FB and insta 2019 I think. I am desperate to delete my FB messenger but struggling bcoz it is the only way family contacts me! My Tiktok is still on for awareness purposes but I am not consuming content from there. One day at a time. But I am active here every day! I do not want to change #nostr for the world! πŸ€“