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Lady Mae - Growth Teacher
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Mental Wellness Coach and Hypnosis Practitioner | Explore Provocative Ideas, Challenge Perception and Grow Your Mind's Eye. I am a work in progress and I am excited to share my journey with you. Let us grow together! ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ˜€โค๏ธ Free Online Hypnosis ๐Ÿ‘‰ https://tinyurl.com/3fpht299

regex is too complicated and if not properly done, without following the basic foundation of programming, it can be a disaster: a) audit and continuity b) could open to a can of vulnerability. ๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

hey there! welcome to the #nostr tribe! โ˜บ๏ธ We cannot wait to see you around! ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘Œ

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Someone posted a pic of nostr:npub1sg6plzptd64u62a878hep2kev88swjh3tw00gjsfl8f237lmu63q0uf63m from #nostr on #threads. A whole bunch of people responded asking 'whats nostr'. How tf do you know what threads is and dont know what nostr is.

did not know about thread. oh wait, is this Zuckeberg's attempt to compite with X? ๐Ÿค”

If you have been in 'fight or flight' mode all your life, it feels strange when you finally find calmness. ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Œ Like any habit or addiction, you may experience withdrawal from it. ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ

Your body is so accustomed to the stress hormones that it seeks them out. Therefore, even in a state of calmness, your brain will try to search for a problem, thinking, 'This can't be real' or 'I must look for something to solve.' ๐Ÿค” You constantly look for threats, even though there are none. ๐Ÿšซ

When you are feeling this way, take a moment to step back. ๐Ÿง˜โ€โ™‚๏ธ Ask yourself these three important questions:

1. Are my thoughts real? If yes, then proceed to the second question. If not, proceed to the third. โœ…

2. What evidence supports my first statement? Your brain will try to search for answers. ๐Ÿ”

3. If I were not thinking what I am thinking now, how would I feel? ๐Ÿ’ญ

These questions help your brain differentiate between 'what is' and 'your own thoughts.' This will guide you to be in control of your thoughts and feelings rather than being a 'slave to them.' Remember, YOU are NOT your THOUGHTS. โœจ

Equally important, this technique takes a lot of practice. Any new habit requires consistent effort before you can replace the old one. ๐Ÿ”„ So do yourself a favour: be kind to yourself, ๐Ÿซ‚ because no one else will. ๐Ÿ’– You cannot truly be kind to others or empathise with them unless you have practised it yourself. ๐Ÿค ๐Ÿค—

#YakiHonne #wherostr #selfreflection #healing #mentalhealth #stress #lifecoach #growthteacher #grownostr #nostr

Cheers,

M๐Ÿ’‹

About user data, I know I saw a youtube video about Signal was approached by the US gov't aaking for user data. As it hardly collect metadata, it only managed to give the date when the account was created. I am not sure if anyone seen this or if it is true? ๐Ÿค”

thank you for your kind words nostr:nprofile1qqsp53zwahne3z8qqd24hvlqv3crmt4wqj7hwsa776artu9n4qzm2yspzemhxue69uhkummnw3ex2mrfw3jhxtn0wfnj7qg4waehxw309amk7apwva5hy6twduhx7un89uq3jamnwvaz7tmjv4kxz7fwwdhx7un59eek7cmfv9kz749s49w! ๐Ÿซ‚

Yes, family was a bit confused but got there in the end. โ˜บ๏ธ

Business wise, I did have a business page and deleted it. All gone. I never like setting it up in the first place. I created it because it was what everyone was doing. I realised later that by staying in FB/Meta I am supporting it and condoning it. One last straw from me was my business page, I was banned because I made a mistake on my page. I think it waa something to do with my identity. I was very upset about it. But in hindsight, it gave me the drive to look elsewhere. ๐Ÿ‘Œ

Right now, I am heavily active on here. I intend to keep it this way. I do have account in Tiktok and Youtube but hardly use it atm. I may use it to drive traffic here or directly to my website. I am re-evaluating the latter. I intend to use #nostr for it. ๐Ÿ’ฏ

If you prefer a chat about this journey over hivetalk โ€” happy to do so. โ˜บ๏ธโค๏ธ

See you around! โœŒ๏ธ

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Testing these relay softs: https://github.com/bitvora/wot-relay

Working quite well, didn't crash overnite and I can see your reply so means the web of trust bits are indeed working.

awwwee. thank you for your hard work. Do you have any suggestion for setting relay for non-tech (safe and secure)?

So true and ๐Ÿ’ฏ spot on. I am sure it will stay with you in memory and neither digital nor physical photo can replace that. ๐Ÿซ‚

Sorry about your dad's passing. Like you said, memories will stay with you. I was hesitant at first because I was attached to the memories. I reliased that I can keep the photos and the memories. My motivations are:

1.) My data. Leaving it on Facebook would mean someone else is capitalising on my data even though I was not using it. It does not sit well with me.

2.)Setting an example. I have nieces and nephews, they are addicted to FB. So if I make a point, I need to show it by action. My family is in the Philippines. Their way of contacting me is through FB Messenger. When I deleted it. It forces them to use other apps like Simplex.

3.) I have out grown Meta and Mark Zuckerberg! Want nothing from his app.

In short, the reasons for deleting it must be important for you. Otherwise, you will waver when you review the photos and face the memories. It must be your courage โ€” the reasons. โ˜บ๏ธ

I DELETED Facebook! But it was hard, not because of Facebook, but because of the memories. ๐Ÿ˜”

My Facebook was deactivated by the end of 2019. Now, I have finally DELETED it along with my Messenger. ๐Ÿ—‘๏ธ

When I was moving my data into my storage, I had to review photos ๐Ÿ“ธ that dated back to the time I created my Facebook account. It was rough. ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

I realised how much I have grown, how I have changed, and how many silly lapses in judgement I had.

It was a "digital public diary" of myself. Reviewing it and reminiscing about those times made me ask:

"Was I like that? Why did I post that? Why did I say that? To whose benefit?" ๐Ÿค”

My younger self was so immature, very much an attention seeker, and very tactless, always seeking validationโ€”"come look at me." It was hard to watch at first. I went to check my friend list one last time and realised I barely have one thing in common with them. I could no longer relate to them. Only a handful of them I stay in touch with. It is neither good nor bad. It only means I have learned my lessons, and I continue to do so. I have evolved, as has my outlook, my worldview, and how I value true connection. ๐Ÿค๐ŸŒฑ

I'd never say it will be pitch perfect from now on, that there will be no more mistakes or foolishness. I'd say I may have more of it because I have learned to take bigger risks than my younger self. I take life as it comes and do my utmost for whatever comes my way. I live it as if it is my last so I can appreciate it even more. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ‘Œ

In fact, my new chapter has only begun, and I am excited to find this tribe and have the privilege to share this journey with you. ๐Ÿค—

If you made it this far, thank you for your time, and see you around. โค๏ธ๐Ÿซ‚

#yakihonne #wherostr #reflection #selfreflection #youngerself #lifelessons #lifecoach #growthteacher #nostr

Cheers,

M๐Ÿ’‹

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well said โค๏ธ๐Ÿ’ฏ thank you for sharing it with us. ๐Ÿซ‚