Nicely said, actions speak volumes.

I am just a needy boy who would love my actions recognized as acts rooted in devotion, rather than being a good (whatever that means) husband/father, which they commonly are seen as by Her.

Oh, just looking for getting one for children (and not gonna lie, for father too 😀) Do you have refractory one? I like the size, but supposedly their are harder to master? Phone mount is plus to get them more interested, although I am quite sure you can 3d print a holder for almost any model now. Last peevee is with price, read comments that you pay premium for the National Geographic logo, but as total amateur I am walking blind in this.

"the Domme gets nothing from the situation psychologically or sexually, and that they are simply fulfilling a role..it certainly isn't the case for me"

Now only if we could, as society, agree that those kind ladies would wear idunno, violet rings, and their male counterparts violet collars, I think, while it would not drop price of eggs or solve human greed, humanity would still net in positive.

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Thinking how it would feel to have sugarsponsor. Not necessarily for need of money, but just for the feeling to waking up to package delivery of lace panties that I "have" to present, or new toy to ride, or just hangout on videochat room where sponsor can flex/show control they would have over me to complete strangers. #justsubthings

Well, that's interesting therapy :D

Funny enough in my discovery years I was amusing thought that I am switch, but it was/is hard limit for Her, se we not really explored it further. I always thought that my tastes in that disappeared, but judging by my pornstash and my mind imaging that grab hair, I would say that part of me is still around 😄

We overslept after putting the kids to bed. She's tired and went right to bed, while I have some work to do. So nothing frisky, kinky, or remotely intimate tonight.

With my game night, her evening lecture with colleagues, her dislike of intimacy after I've had alcohol (so pub nights are out of the question), her work stress (irrational this time, but I'm still trying to be supportive), and our two nights of separation due to splitting up to take the kids to their preferred activities in different towns - this marks a week of me trying to initiate something. There's no time to chat or play during the day (due to the nature of her work), nor after getting home since the kids need attention, and I fear they're still not getting enough.

This really sucks for any unfortunate soul whose primary love language is physical touch.

Looking forward to better tomorrows, but for tonight, it's #wine night.

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Wife got back from the girls' coffee time. It kinda pumps me up when she describes how other girls complain about their partners, and my wife is (jokingly) bummed because she can't add to the conversation. It's at least a little selfish, but having her friends see me as a partner that goes above and beyond somewhat melts my heart and hardens my crotch.

Good girl 😄

Yeah, the sense of accomplishment when I can make Her go from the midday desert to the monsoon Niagara is something to live (and die) for.

I would say I do not envy you, but I would be lying 😁

Yeah, that's good point with consent. Maybe make it like geocaching? Leaving crumbs of hints where one of strong motivation can find photo reward 😀

Ok, too much work. I would stick to the old naked under the coat fun 😁

Yeah, but sometimes you can be semihard pervert 😀

Agree, involving other people is always potential mess waiting to happen 😟 But I still think female leaving peak-a-boob polaroids in local library is considered funny or kinky by society (well, not by everyone of course, but you get the gist), while male doing that would be considered threatening and potential rapist 🥺

Her work stress spoiled the chance then... Another chance tonight, wish me luck 🤞 😀

I often have mixed feelings when I see things that women could do much more easily. Because if I were female, I think—on the downside—I’d be really slutty, and on the upside… well, reeeeeally slutty.

Like right now, it's weather that's fit for wearing coats. When I see girls wearing them, with stockings covering just below their knees, I KNOW that, given the chance, I would definitely be cruising town totally naked (except for stockings and maybe some simple chest bondage). Or like with the children's camera that prints low-resolution photos on thermal paper (like shop receipts) - I would leave my "visiting cards" of half-naked, half-teasing body pictures everywhere from restroom stalls to library books.

Maybe it's a good thing I'm not in a position to do that.

Good call 👍🏻 Has anyone ever refused to participate?

You says it like it's a bad thing 😁

Would love to have some front row seats for that 😜

Oh, neat, little fucking machine, maybe this one could be added to our toolbox 😅