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Welcome to my swamp. Enter at your own risk. Author doesn't bite, but is known to occasionally try to lick. Subema means 'someone who likes submissivity'. #nsfw friendly, #flr wannabe, occasional #foodstr

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(there are better ways how could one warm those feet, certainly)

GM โ˜€โ˜•

(there are better ways how could one warm those feet, certainly)

That reddit from a few posts back reminds me of one of the "paths" I have scribbled in an ever-growing notebook for BDSM positive games (but that's for another time). It was basically about getting oneself deliberately broken in the most beautiful ways. Like actively training to associate having an orgasm with having something in the ass, kinda thing.

A lot of water has flowed under that bridge since.

On the topic of the importance of communicating.

This morning, lying in bed, thinking about a little dry spell, I noticed She was on the brim of being awake. I half spooned Her, started kissing her neck and caressing her belly. I moved Her hair from her ear, so there's no need to repeat what I wanted to say. "I have unmet needs to satisfy you with my fingers." In response just a light smile on Her lips (up) and parting of legs and lips (down). Not long after that Her hips quickly forced my hand into her favourite pose ๐ŸคŸ...

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So... uh, that's a thing too, I guess ยฏ\_(ใƒ„)_/ยฏ

https://www.reddit.com/r/Prematurefetish/

They definitely know what they were going with that slogan ๐Ÿ˜…

It's hard to overestimate what a confident woman can demand and actually receive without much fuss.

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I put coffee cup in Her hands, She puts knees on my shoulders. I would call it fair exchange.

This particular scenario was not a recurring thing. The petting before we got to even see each other naked, yeah, we were shy and late bloomers so were taking things unimaginably slow. For better or worse ๐Ÿ˜…

We do not like public play; semi-public adds a little taboo taste... That being said, we were young, horny, and not always lucky enough to get our own room, so...yeah we were having fun at some obscure places ๐Ÿ˜Š

In a #mood to get wine & shisha & picnic cover, lay down behind some bushes in a semi-busy park, out of sight but within earshot, and relive some heavy petting sessions we were doing so often before the kids.

It sucks knowing things but not feeling them.

Sometimes it's internal. Like you know you are/should be sad, but are not able to feel it. That may be pinned to emotional desensitivity conditioned by upbringing in a society that treats males the way it does.

Sometimes it's coming from outside. Like knowing you are being loved, but not actually feeling it. That may be pinned to idontknowandiamafraidtoponderwhy.

...well, that's what a friend of mine says anyway.

Certainly! You need food, you want sous-vide Kobe steak with white pepper sauce and a dash of saffron. Like your family needs someone to protect them, take care of them, and fulfill all the other invisible male duties. BUT it wants (=actively chooses) you to fulfill that position.

You can't control the need, you choose what you want (* exceptions may apply).

As for the second question, I think there is nothing wrong with the need to be loved/desired in a specific way. On the contrary, I think the world would be a better place if everyone knew/listened to themselves about their own needs. The selfish part is to expect partner(s) to magically know what you need, not to tell (or communicate) to them and be disappointed afterwards. Or to be angry/blaming if you do manage to state your needs and the other party is disinterested/unable to accommodate that.

Easier said than done though ๐Ÿ˜