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Sort of agree though the platform makes it easy for me. What do you suggest?

Even though I disagree, I always like a good LOTR analogy.

Just because you post under a nym doesn't mean there is no cost. Whether it is a nym or true name you can lose reputation. It takes time and is hard to build reputation and you can burn that in an instant. That reputation is valuable psychologically, socially, and/or monetarily.

There are many nyms that are more credible and trustworthy to me (because they have been around so long and proven themselves) than some people who post using their true identities (either because they are new or have shown themselves to be dishonest/wrong all the time.)

You also don't have to choose. You can have your true name and multiple nyms that are unconnected and use those nyms to freely speak and work out more controversial or even dangerous topics depending where you are from.

While I agree with you that free speech and being yourself "should" be normal and the honest and upright "should" always be able to post as themselves, that is not the reality of the world we live in. I don't think we will ever live in that world. We can only get closer and farther.

Anonymity helps offset the asymmetric advantage that the powerful and corrupt have.

Like you said, Frodo uses the ring to hide from powerful foes many times where he would've been captured or killed. He even uses it for good on occasion. The ring is just a tool. It is not good or bad. The person is the one that uses it for good or bad. That's how I look at it.

You can always disassociate from the bad faith and troll nyms by muting. But I found it isn't really an issue in my experience.

Yes, he uses ring when necessary, but the ring exerts a pull and a temptation on him (and everyone else) that will lead to abuse which is why Gandalf refuses it, and why only the humblest creatures (hobbits) were suited to carry out of the task of destroying it. Gandalf’s character wouldn’t have survived the task without “becoming like the dark lord himself” as he admits.

This is actually the best objection to my post I’ve read today — and there have been many.

There are a lot of psychos out there, and it’s why I’ll put pictures of my dog on social media, but never my daughter.

But there’s a difference between social media activity of making friends and socializing vs voicing your views in the public square. With the former what you say makes a ton of sense. With the latter, I think it makes a big difference for things to come from a person for the reasons I said in the post.

Walking The Dog

Every morning the first thing I do is take Oscar, an eight pound, six-inch tall, long-haired mini dachshund out for a walk. We go to the “windy park,” which is really just a small patch of grass in an office building plaza two blocks away. The walk to the windy park and back is roughly a quarter mile. I do this every morning, every evening and usually a few times in between, depending on my and Oscar’s schedules. (Oscar has a farm to which he goes twice per week outside the city to run around with other dogs.) All told, I probably walk him about 2-3 times per day, seven days a week.

Let’s be conservative and say I walk him 2.67 times per day, six days per week. (Heather walks him about a quarter of the time, and our nearly 11-YO daughter Sasha, who coined “windy park,” does it, say, 1.5 times per week, but only after expressing emotions ranging from huge fuss to apocalyptic tantrum. This despite her being the one who forced us to get a dog via incessant begging and guilt-tripping two and a half years ago.)

If we do the math 2.67 times 6 = 16 trips per week, each of which is a quarter mile, meaning I do four miles per week of dog walking, not including the two flights of stairs in our walkup. Four miles per week for two and a half years (let’s make it two since we leave him with a dog sitter for a month in the summer) is roughly 100 weeks. That means I’ve done 400 extra walking miles and 3200 flights of stairs both up and down solely on account of Oscar.

In exchange, I’ve gotten fresh air, exercise, awkward forced socializing with other dog owners, often in a foreign language I only partially understand and a level of naive affection and loyalty of which humans are incapable past age eight.

On balance, it’s a good deal.

https://chrisliss.substack.com/p/walking-the-dog

People are terrified now that what they say online is going to get them in trouble in the future.

When I was growing up, we were worried about people finding out you did acid more than six times, which (probably an urban legend) made you legally insane.

Or some employer would test you for weed.

Now no one cares at all about that stuff. And you have so many pepple terrified to say the wrong words now because they’ll get blackballed or cancelled like those idiot Harvard students who thought the were saying the right words until they weren’t.

The thing you’re not supposed to do or say changes all the time. Don’t live in fear of what someone else might care about.

If you have a good reason to use a nym (you’re a whistleblower, e.g.) great, but otherwise, I don’t see what it does except imply you don’t want to be connected to what you’re saying IRL.

And I don’t really see how nyms create more community than real identities, or erase status. There are famous nyms and not famous ones, ones with lots of followers and few.

And you definitely don’t *need* to do this, but I’m suggesting one should because the things people are saying (most of them at least) are perfectly fine to have connected to your identity, and we should normalize that being okay rather than being terrified the State will get us or some future employer will not hire us on account of it. It just makes that state of affairs more and more real IMO.

Replying to Avatar captain ☦️

nostr:npub1dtf79g6grzc48jqlfrzc7389rx08kn7gm03hsy9qqrww8jgtwaqq64hgu0, what brought you to nostr? Did you try any other free speech technology before?

I saw some bitcoin Twitter people talking about it, and I hated that my posts were (I’m fairly sure but can’t prove it) throttled.

I tried mastodon for a minute, but it sucked, and that was it. I deleted all the Facebook properties in 2018, so it was only Twitter.

Replying to Avatar StackSats.IO

I didn’t want to do the Reddit post dissection thing but I did disagree with the entirety of your article, I just picked on the first point as it was glaringly obvious.

That you took the bait of my Boomer comment shows the value of NOT putting your face in a pfp. You gave something away whilst knowing nothing of me, you’re immediately at a disadvantage in that dynamic and I used it for a reaction and got it.

That’s what I’m referring to in you not understanding how younger ppl interact online and are projecting. I could continue the troll here but it’s already illustrated my point so I’ll refrain and try to be kind.

You can’t have it both ways claiming nyms lack credibility and then conceding highly credible individuals use nyms.

I don’t know you from a bar of soap, this is our first interaction on #nostr - I could point to a hundred nyms who have a greater reputation than you and whose opinions are more credible than yours so where has your real name and picture gotten you other than trolled?

Your second point is tied to the first - nyms have reputations. Just because you don’t ascribe credibility is meaningless - others do.

And your most important point I did address with my point that you have false assumptions of why ppl use nyms. I reject your frame that I’m assuming the censors frame, that’s NOT why ppl use nyms. And not only am I not cedeing a right to free speech, your contention of that being an absolute right is myopically American - I’ve lived across the world and seen the spectrum of speech, you’ve applied your narrow lens and assumptions with little appreciation for what this looks like elsewhere and why nyms are useful generally whether it’s here or elsewhere.

Dude, I don’t give a shit if you’re mocking my photo because I picked that photo and I’m good with it. I stand by it.(I was just making a joke because I am not a boomer.) Just as I stand by the content of my posts with my name on it.

You are neither at an advantage nor being kind.

And you are nitpicking again! You know what I meant by identity conferring credibility, and that I’m not known on NOSTR or in the bitcoin space and many nyms are does not change that obvious fact.

And you did not address my most important point which was to the extent you have fundamental rights (I don’t live in the US anymore BTW), you should exercise them, lest you lose them. I explicitly said anonymity is warranted in some cases, but I suspect for most of the nyms on NOSTR it’s fear of consequences of free speech. Which undermines the right itself.

yeah, I have at times, but then I lose all the links and italics, etc. Was messing around (briefly) with Habla, but couldn’t figure it out and gave up. Probably will try again at some point.

“I tend to post what I think here and on Twitter, and sometimes people don’t appreciate some of what I’m saying. That’s okay — they are free to unfollow, unsubscribe, mute or even block! But occasionally, they will go farther and try actually to deter me from posting, telling others in the public square what I’m saying is “dangerous” or “harmful”. I’ve even been accused of “killing people” and having a “body count!”

A recent example of this happened a couple months ago when I posted the following observation about the colonoscopy procedure:”

https://chrisliss.substack.com/p/harmful-speech

I don’t know how to make this any more clear, but maybe I’ll try for the 100th time for the reading comprehension-challenged:

I am not advocating for *forcing* you to ID yourself. I am not advocating for platforms to force you to ID yourself. I am making the case why you should ID yourself voluntarily because it’s courageous and beneficial. And I specify exactly why in great detail.

You might disagree. That’s fine.

But I am not “several steps away” from claiming we need Digital IDs to have a voice online.

I’m a fucking million miles away from that.