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Man must be tough picking feathers out of your teeth afterwards 😂

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Once forgiven of our sins, going forward we should not fear that every fault or sin makes God angry and quick to send us to hell unless we re-repent, as if we have an unsure, on-again-off-again relationship with a moody Jesus. (Of course, for our good and for the sake of justice we should repent of our sins daily. Jesus tells us to pray, “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.”)

We need not have an ongoing anxiety attack, afraid God's finger is always hovering over the "smite" button. We know Jesus always loves us and will see us through this life’s journey.

But that’s not to say even a single “mortal sin” won't send us to hell. We should feel guilty if we knowingly and willingly commit a serious sin, and we should not feel settled until we repent and receive absolution. Mortal sin is the kind that is a full rejection of God’s grace, and it's how we choose hell unless we repent of it before we die.

For the Catholic, repentance of mortal sin includes going to Confession. It is Jesus’ gift to us, because he knows we are capable of mortal sin even after baptism.

Now if someone is a non-Catholic Christian who genuinely doesn’t know he should be Catholic and go to Confession, then he would need to make a perfect act of contrition, which is much harder. It’s the purest form of repentance which involves perfect sorrow -- not out of fear of hell or the loss of heaven, but purely out of offending God, who is deserving of all our love.

Today, on All Souls Day, let’s pray for all who have died — and for all those we love who are still living — that God would free all from the sin that separates us from him.

I love your description of Christian hope, even in the face of sin.

Sauces and roasts in the winter, mmmmm

My primary work might be at my job, earning money to support the home, and in time my wife's might be to raise and educate our children. However, she also wants to have projects and roles outside the home, and I'll certainly have important roles within the home.

As an example, we plan to homeschool. My wife might volunteer at a homeschool co-op to help fill the needs of the community. She might also work a part-time job if schedules and the needs of children allow to earn some extra money for savings.

On the other hand, I might be a math tutor for our kids, since that's a strong suit for me.

There are good reasons men typically work more outside the home and women within, but there's often a lot of overlap, because both spouses serve the greater good of the family.

Of course! Running a household is too much for just one person to do, even for a stay-at-home housewife.

As a husband and leader of my little household, I view my responsibility as primarily to be a servant leader. So my wife and I will divide responsibilities within the home, but I'll happily step in to fill gaps if she's overwhelmed, and likewise she'll do the same for me.

When we have kids, I'll want to teach them the same ethic. Everyone helps out in making the household work.

Regarding tasks, I think it's up to a couple to divide the labor of the home according to their situation and skills/predispositions.

As an example, my wife really enjoys cooking, and she currently works part time (though she'll probably be a fully stay-at-home mom once we have kids), so she does most of the cooking.

I, on the other hand, usually clean the bathrooms, just because I most often remember to do it first, and because I often like to have something kind of mindless to do right after work.

A housewife/stay at home mom will usually end up doing more of the household chores, just because she has more time to do so, but I think what exactly the balance or division of labor looks like will vary from couple to couple.

All the pickled and fermented things

I don't think the Cold War really ended. We got an intermission, but China and Russia seem to be back to Cold War thinking. The US hasn't recognized the shift yet, though, and that's a problem.

Everyone hates seed oils until a bowl of roast pumpkin seeds is put in front of them.

English is just a bunch of languages in a trench coat, which gives us stuff like this