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Lucas M
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I'm the father of two lovely daughters🥰, a New Yorker, a pre-COVID hodler, and an army vet who loves cooking, hunting, guns, and homebrewing. I'm also extremely anti-war and extremely pro-bitcoin. https://habla.news/laeserin/3e693b64 MedSchlr https://geyser.fund/project/medschlr GitCitadel https://geyser.fund/project/gitcitadel

I'm not getting into all that right now. But, what I do know for certain is that the government needs to go in order for us to help our kids. The states are too divided right now and that has created a HUGE moment of vulnerability for over 300 million people. We NEED to figure something out ASAP!

Absolutely! Honestly, I'm a bit worried that the average age for first-time parenthood has increased so much over the past few decades. It's a concerning trend.

Anytime!

My marriage wasn't FLR, we just had a definite understanding of each other's strengths and weaknesses. Also, that was crucial in doing our best to not argue in front of the kids.

Two marriages and 13 years of parenthood changes a LOT of things. What can I say🤷‍♂️?!

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Wrote a long reply, nostrudel reloaded :(

> I just hope we see better cooperation fairly soon.

I was just going to say, in my opinion we're getting along very well over all. We have our disagreements but the better ideas will win eventually. Speaking as a member of one of the few (if not only) nostr development companies, who believe in this cooperation. But we also aggressively fork and do whatever TF we want to when necessary.

nostr:npub1l5sga6xg72phsz5422ykujprejwud075ggrr3z2hwyrfgr7eylqstegx9z suggested we move our bickering out of public relays if we can help it. Keep it away from the users. Im of the opinion any highly skilled & motivated individual become difficult to manage, in a corporate setting this is just hidden from the users, but forums and twitter are alive with software devs bickering. If you are unfamiliar, just look up about any highy ranked post on hacker news (https://news.ycombinator.com/) you'll notice most developers don't cooperate well XD

Depends on your definition of cooperate I suppose.

I'd like to hear your ideas on funding, my ears are always up when money is involved :) That said I have never received a dime for MY software yet. Our team has been pretty big critics of the current funding systems as well.

I'm glad to hear about most of the devs getting along very well for the most part.

That could be a good idea, especially if developers who are more open to user feedback are frequently present in the group. I will definitely look that up. Thanks.

As I understand it, the more major clients are funded by people like Jack and such, right? I've just been wondering how nostrs retention rate would've performed if it was solely crowdfunded. Like the launching of a bunch of different clients at once, observing which ones are used the most for maybe the first month or so, then have a crowdfunding round for those clients and other future projects that get a significant amount attention through feeds. Maybe some form of advertisement on clients that aren't strictly social media-based.

I wasn't suggesting that we all need to get along to progress but more cooperation among devs and users, regardless of differences of opinion, would be nice. You don't have to like someone to realize that a particular piece of feedback or recommendation they gave you holds potential value if implemented. Also, many devs don't seem to possess your approach to inclusion.

That's disappointing to hear. Though, I'm not all too surprised to hear that. As for funding, I think nostr might have taken the wrong approach to that matter. I'll elaborate on that another time, perhaps. We'll see what happens. I just hope we see better cooperation fairly soon.

Why yes:

1. Men, more often than not, don't have the same level of emotional intelligence that women naturally possess. This is why it seems to be more common for men to act without any empathic reasoning and why submission to her can sometimes help promote emotional development while also providing better understanding for both the practical and emotional consequences of our actions and decisions.

2. Helps build trust and humility which, in turn, helps create better lines of communication during more... turbulent times😅. This also helps further develop problem solving capabilities for both.

3. I've found that learning to submit at the proper time has made me far less selfish and more considerate. To clarify, what I mean by that is that I'm still capable of being a good leader, but without the use of purely selfish incentives.

4. It's definitely made me a better listener.

Why no:

1. Submission always has the chance of becoming an addictive or habitual behavior. Understanding when it is an appropriate time to do so is key.

2. If it becomes either one that can lead to a power imbalance which, almost always, leads to the deterioration of a previously healthy relationship and possibly to the development of feelings of inferiority for the man and superiority for the woman.

3. Can definitely lead to a lack of boundaries.

I've only been here for about three months so I'll take your word for it. That explains why so many clients have so many bugs and are left in a stage of infancy.