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I apologize for my language and tone. If you want to have a discussion I can remain civil.

Neither of us can speak for women. The difference between my position and yours is I leave it up to them to decide while you have decided for them.

Believing that women's most important role in society is to have babies is antiquated and a symptom of a system where men hold all the power. Women in a homemaking role give up their autonomy and become reliant on the man, which opens them up to abuse. Some men are attracted to this dynamic because it gives them more leeway to take advantage of the power imbalance. This is not always the case. Sometimes this dynamic can work out great for both parties. I'm just saying it's ripe for abuse.

Society has evolved. Family is whatever a person wants it to be. To say that the nuclear family is the best and most important for society as if you are some moral authority is arrogance. Having children is not a great accomplishment, most people on the planet are capable of doing that. Likewise having children does not suddenly grant you some great wisdom and authority on the subject. I know this is going to be insulting and I'm sorry, but if your greatest accomplishment is that you creampied in a woman then I think you need to reevaluate your life.

The power dynamic between the sexes is changing. With 8 billion people on the planet procreation is not seen as such a vital thing to contribute to humanity. If women don't feel they have to have babies to contribute that gives them options for how they want to live their life, which gives them more power and men that want them to remain subservient don't like that.

You earned a follow, my friend.

Thanks!!

Ah, the editorial comment pissed me off. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I really hope his campaign will wake up the masses.

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Just make sure you don't restrict yourself during this process.

If you feel sad, hurt, mad about her, mad about the guy, feel you just don't want her to be talking to him any more, whatever it may be (I'm not saying you do feel or think these things, just as examples things people might want to avoided feeling or thinking), just allow yourself to feel and think them.

Don't act on them, don't say anything to her while still in this process, but really dive deep into yourself. I think there'll be good surprises at the end of the tunnel. πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

Btw, maybe fear of losing her is one of the underlying reasons?

First, figure out if that's insecurity in you or if there was a similar situation in your past that left an emotional scar.

Then, see if how she goes about it makes you feel you're not as important in some aspects or of that sort.

What to do about that info comes later, first really figure out the reason for those feelings.

With or without your pinkyout? πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

Jk. Just reminded me of this scene on a sitcom when this guy really liked an apple martini, he was teased about holding the stem with his pinky sticking out?