Turn on your sound to be transported somewhere magical. I want everyone to visit this place, no matter where they are, physically. Download the full 24 minute audio journey. You can DM me your email and I will send it to you.
https://blossom.primal.net/be9b66121d3b06b35f99c1c2724e012b55f1d584504795280854772caed71a44.mov
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Turn your sound on. I truly want everyone to be transported here. DM me your email for the full 24 minute audio journey.
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I can feel there is something more to come. And can’t wait when it does ☺️
Oh my goodness this is incredible to witness. Thank you for taking us along on the ride 🫶🏻
😍😍 watching this come to life is magnificent. I love that you used spatulas!
Bringing the gift of winter right into your hearts, the best way I know how.
https://juliapartyka.com/meditations
https://blossom.primal.net/325f10bee68462403834d7e1d32f3bdac8005965036b6033b74126665ff94f6b.mov
Our pond has been looking glorious over the last couple weeks and it was calling my name. But we’d have snow then melting and a few days above zero which made it look amazing but also had me think it wasn’t thick enough. Well, yesterday was so cold I thought, “I gotta go test it and see”
It was PERFECT. I got my dad out to come safety watch, put on my skates and was a kid again. 2 hours later we were hit with a blizzard and it was buried.
I am always reminded to make moves on those nudges I get, even if I’m the only one who wants to explore it. Life moves fast. Windows of opportunity close. Go play. ❄️
https://blossom.primal.net/e97d3c7b765e70e4c9dea80776387b53005bae779eae6d3beaf2b9253045664e.mov
Opening NOSTR to see this and I audibly gasped. How beautiful 🥹
Yes!
Oh my goodness! 🥹 I just audibly gasped!
Merry Christmas everyone 🎄
https://blossom.primal.net/9515859d242d68669e5edf45e71b73d7ce2132ecc5e2259e03f156bdb656c9b1.mov
Go to Settings > Zaps and you can change your default!
This has been me so many mornings, taking my dog out and to have had my friend capture it in such a beautiful way really touches my heart
Omg I would be HONOURED 🥹 Photo credit goes to Chelsea Adair if ever relevant
In my morning element. GM everyone ❄️
Ah and amethyst is only for android right?
#asknostr how do you send emoji reactions to posts that aren’t “likes”? 😂
Yes, 4 months in and I am asking now lol
GM ❄️
Give a girl a miniature chainsaw…
Yesterday I was with a man and I danced.
For me.
For Her.
Only.
And he watched.
Unlike anything I have ever done before.
So much of my life, I’ve felt the need to speak.
To bring the vastness of my soul and the consciousness it is connected to, through the succinct articulation of my words.
As if that is the only way to give.
As if that is the only way to be seen.
As if I must always Know.
But yesterday I found another way.
A way so true and close to my heart that it felt like the only way I could have done it.
My desire for our time together was to be witnessed in the truth of the moment.
That’s it.
And as I was looking into his eyes and my mind started to lock up with, “What’s in there? What wants to come out?”
All I could hear is
Move.
He clears space on the floor, blanket down and I get on my knees.
Feel the earth.
Breathe.
Music comes on and I let it touch my insides.
The ocean swells.
Ahhhhh comes a sigh.
My chest bubbles and I know it’s coming.
Sobs.
My hands on the floor hold me steady.
Bowed in devotion to the very thing that tethers me to the now.
Earth.
I can feel him there.
But my eyes remain closed.
This is for me.
The big thing that’s lives inside that feels like it might destroy me at any second moves through my system in waves.
An ocean within moves my limbs.
Eventually
I rise.
The music becomes more sensual.
Mmmmm.
The alchemy.
My hips start to dip.
The primal pose of a woman in service.
Legs spread.
And then I hear it.
Look at him.
Fuck.
To see and be seen in this.
Can I do it?
Yes.
This is why I’m here.
Ever so gently I open.
Never leaving myself.
But letting him in deeper.
And then they close again.
And open.
And close.
Full permission for my own pace.
He watches.
With reverence.
Respect.
Intention.
I smile.
The tension slowly disappearing from my body.
It’s out.
And I’m here.
Still alive.
And loved.
This is for him too.
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To witness and be witnessed is an erotic act. It is to let yourself be moved by what is being revealed in front of you… without leaving your mark. Tomorrow (Tuesday Nov 25th) at 3pm im holding an online workshop where men and women are coming together to explore the relational skill of witnessing - one that I think can have major transformational effects on relationships, and the humans in them.
If you’d like to join us, it’s $99 and you can bring your partner.
Scroll down on my main page to see the button for single registration: https://www.katieloconnor.com/reunion
Years ago, when my ex and I were discussing some things after we broke up, he said to me, “I’m sorry I have been critical of your emotions. I realized that it was uncomfortable for me to see you in your emotions and pain so I tried to make you wrong for it so I didn’t have to feel my own shit.”
Me being “fragile” was a consistent pattern in our relationship. Now, I am so clear that that was a reflection of my own beliefs playing out in him. But hearing him say that really clicked something in.
When you start to see the bigger picture of what is playing out, it begins to shift the whole dance.
Because when we don’t have language for what is happening, it’s very difficult to have a relationship to it.
Having language for a sensational experience and relational dynamic creates an opportunity to separate ourselves from it.
And with that, (combined with deeper capacity work) comes agency.
I see so many couples where there is this gap where they cannot meet each other. Like a black foggy hole between them they keep circling but cannot meet in.
One of my gifts is that I can see the meeting point. The very spot of truth that, if acknowledged, would create more energy and movement between them.
I used to see this with my parents and it would frustrate the shit out of me. Many times I would inappropriately jump in to translate for them in order to soothe my own sensation. But now, I use this gift to illuminate things for men and women so they can see and feel the dynamic that is operating more clearly.
One of the things I am doing with this REUNION series, is giving language and a practice field for specific relational areas that often give us challenges. Not so things can be fixed, but so you can have more literacy of what’s happening and therefore the ability to relate to it differently.
Witnessing is one of those areas I see an opportunity for. It has the power to really transform connection and the individuals involved.
To witness is to take your hand off the wheel of control.
It is to stay on your mark and let someone fully be as they are.
It is to trust.
Next week’s workshop is going to go deep into Witnessing, for both men and women. I’m opening it up as a standalone workshop.
If this is resonating with you, and you want a frame for you and your man or woman to work with in those stickier spots, I’d love to have you both there.
It’s on Tuesday November 25th at 3pm EST.
$99 per person and there is a recording.
DM me for the link.
Singles are welcome as well of course.
I’m watching people call NYC Mamdanistan and be excited about it. I am actually flabbergasted at the insanity. I don’t know why I keep getting surprised but man…
Truth is relationship lube.
I’m hosting a free online workshop this Tuesday night (28th) at 8:00pm ET called Relationship as a Sacred Ecosystem. It is the foundational principle that I use in all my relationship work and the way I orient to relationships in my own life. I really want to open up conversation and connection at a larger scale and I think creating resilient and connected relationships is so incredibly important during these times. Meeting beyond the beliefs and identities.
There will be a transmission and some Q+A where I will work some real life relationship stuff so if you’re interested, I’d love to have you. You will walk away with new ways to deepen your relationships immediately.
GN
GM and Happy Thanksgiving to my Canadians 🇨🇦🍁
Do people GE (good evening) over here?
I would call that not actually choosing to be done. There’s a difference between all parts of you on board, deciding and one part judging your behaviour while the other part carries on.
What I’m speaking to is the fully embodied choice where the adult in you says we’re done. The inner children or hungry parts may squirm and protest, but there’s a greater knowing that they don’t run the show anymore.
There are AI text bots to help you text with women and those to help women with men.
I’m calling it now, those who go down that path will be on a much darker path overall over the next decade.
Your intuitive, honest and authentic nature is your currency in these times.
When that starts to atrophy, it’s bad news bears.
Stay weird, dorky, authentic and you. I promise you no manufactured relationship is worth losing your soul over.
Oh my goodness y’all don’t know what’s comin with this gal. Big mover and shaker hoppin over to NOSTR land!
Sir, this is not an appropriate way to get your message out.
lol yes, it’s not actually about the information, as nostr:nprofile1qqs0fk6jwz7ejxchh6s7d5p473w7uwffr8pfga9m4sgrgtfz836wp5qpz9mhxue69uhkummnw3ezuamfdejj7qgkwaehxw309ahx7um5wfjkc6t5v4ejummjvuhsesmqsm said it’s the first gesture of respect. An offering towards connection vs a consumption of her energy.
I very rarely listen to podcasts or watch educational YouTube clips.
Instead, I surround myself with people in my life, including teachers, whose translation of concepts is one that resonates with me at a deep level. This happens with my circle of friends naturally.
If a friend listens to a podcast and loves it and wants me to listen, I will ask her what spoke to her in it and what got her excited.
Her translation of the pieces that mattered is way more valuable to me than the original transmission.
When it comes to health and longevity, I will ask my brother because his knowledge is one I trust. Almost any time he tries to send me a study or something he’s read, it’s a no. Of course there are exceptions, but most of the time, I learn through people that my soul has deemed appropriate for my overall growth.
This has not been an intentional thing, but rather something I have observed of myself over the years. And it’s something I trust deeply.
It is also how I landed here.
Lesson 1: speaking to a woman like this doesn’t magically make your dick any bigger.
A spicy one from my past
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Okay switched it and going to give this a go!
I don’t think I’ve ever been anywhere where I enter a space and people are coming at me “give us a way for us to pay you!!”
The ethos here is really incredible. Already feeling totally supported.