idea: iphone/android call feature where instead of initiating a call right away, it sends a “call request” text message that expires after N minutes. If the user clicks accept the call goes through. Would be a polite/more chill way to initiate a call

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nostr:npub1g53mukxnjkcmr94fhryzkqutdz2ukq4ks0gvy5af25rgmwsl4ngq43drvk were you able to troubleshoot the webrtc calls?

It could also include the reason why you’re calling. This ux seems way better than what we currently have

yes

1,000 %

also: 4 minutes is ideal for me

and being able to leave the reason blank or make it an emoji is likewise ideal for me

maybe everyone else can share theirs and then can averageish that or something idk

and if you werent taking requests im sorry

i just got really into the idea of an eggplant arriving on my phone

and lighting a cigarette as i thought about it for a couple minutes before letting it expire

call receivers should be able to establish quotas

also change their own acceptance status depending on what they're doing

then callers would be well informed about whether they can or cant call at that time

maybe the button to reject a call should be many buttons

like one would be "please, is this urgent? otherwise send a message or call later"

Yes yes yes. Nobody would design it the current way from scratch. That we are still emulating the behavior of the original Siemens pipe ringer from 1877 in software is nuts when you think about it. I never would have thought about how stupid this is until you mentioned it. But it is insanely stupid.

Good idea

Thats actually a pretty good idea, you could get a message like [(name) would like to talk about (reason for wanting to call), expires in (amount of time)] or something to that effect.

😂 You don’t have to answer a call. Calling someone isn’t rude and not picking up isn’t rude either this is how the world worked before the internet.

You can already send a text message first asking the other person to call you back.

That's essentially what you're describing.

This seems to me like an somewhat automated solution to a problem easily solved through simple communication like text.

"Are you busy or can we jump on a call?"

Fixes a lot of that. You can even program it into a shortcut.

noone does that though. If its a protocol maybe more people would do it

FWIW I've done that plenty in both a professional and personal context... try it sometime

I literally only do that. People are busy and phonecalls can monopolize one's time so I find it best to plan them ahead of time.

I guess I'm just not the target audience for this.

First of all, please stop with the genius ideas.

We need you to invent problems to the solutions we already have. 🥹

Love it. This might be the one and only chance to actually get me on the phone. I dont answer calls anymore.

absolutely genius 😹

plz stop incoming spam calls. wish I had a personal AI answering service to screen for spam and only allow callers thru that want to give me money and block callers trying to convince me to part with my money.

IOS26 uses ai to screen calls. The caller states name and purpose and the receiver has the choice to accept, otherwise AI replies that a message will be sent to the receiver.

The phone ringing is your call request.

that's how it should be in times of silent mode

Except for the very few who I have white-listed, I already require a text in advance. I suspect by adding this little bit of friction, most would-be lazy callers instead opt for a more succinct text conversation anyway.

Calling already has a decline function… don’t see the issue

A poke call

This is the future.

Or just text - "hey call me"

bestie and I already do this. We don't call each other without permission. "are you available to talk?" and then we negotiate from there 🤣

then I know if she calls me w/o permission it's a GD, defcon-5-level emergency.

everyone in my family understands this except the (adult) kids. 😂 they get carte blanche.

I have one friend who will *never* talk on the phone. We've been on a phone call ONCE in 15 years. it works. she just hates phone talks. 🤷‍♀️