I'm not pretending anything, I'm here for it.
I'm offering a privacy tool with formstr.app , which is more private than any other forms app that exists.
Which is why it irks me when you say privacy doesn't exist on nostr, because here I am breaking my back to make sure it does, and it's better than anything else you can get on the market, but all that effort goes to vain since people have already made up their mind that privacy doesn't exist on nostr, because some famous dev said so.
Relays are honeypots, yes, but they don't have control over your data the same way centralized services do. They don't hold the keys to decrypt,and we've just discussed ways where we can make sure they can have no clue who's accessing the data as well.
Some of those tools exist right now. Formstr is essentially anonymous keys with gift wrapped access. Yes it's not on Tor, but it can just as well be used with Tor if someone needs to.
You can keep shitting on efforts being made, all I'm arguing is, that it's literally harmful to people that believe you, and most harmful to people that get turned away from better solutions that exist today.