I've seen it and I've been here about as long as you. One lady called the men disagreeing with noshole "Limped dicked men who wanted to have a sausage party", whatever the hell that is.

Men argue differently than women. When they can't win by logic they will burst into tears, etc. And there is no way there can be any social interaction without heated debate. IMHO the ladies of nostr need thicker skins and I don't see it as necessarily and male/female issue. Hell, half the time I have no idea which gender I am interacting with here anyway and should feel free to express my opinion as I like without having to walk on eggshells at the risk of offending someone.

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That probably can and does happen. However, that doesn't seem to reflect the conversation I followed from yesterday. All I saw was men acting like men that I wouldn't ever want around any of the women in my life.

I was raised differently. In my house, my father taught me to defend and respect women. I try to have debates without being mean. I just didn't see any of that yesterday.

Decency has nothing to do with gender

I don’t understand how the interaction from yesterday became a gender issue

Treat people as individuals

I agree with you about defending women, however most of the women I have contact with are quite capable of defending themselves.

Anyway, not sure why you called my comment "sexist" as that is hardly me. But this is an example of the different way men and women discuss or argue. We settled this. A woman might have runned oft crying misogyny.

I have bad news for you - Derek is kind of retarded.

Lady weighing in on this. The strength of actual women is compassion, emotion, being able to embrace all that chaos in a crisis. The strength of actual men is courage, integrity, focus, ability to be objective. Pro-tip: focus on the good qualities of your person, in whatever relationship, and watch the good qualities grow.

It's like we both need each other to be balanced 🤔

We absolutely do.

So now I have to filter my freedom of expression based on gender?

Yes. Work hard.

Considering this is your stance, go find the language I used that you want changed & show me what you want from me.

I'm curious 🧐🤨.

But you are kind of retarded, to be honest.

IT SEEMS #NOSTR HAS BEEN INVADED BY WOMAN HATING HOMOSEXUALS

THERE IS A SIMPLE SOLUTION TO YOUR VAGINA JEALOUSY

THATS JUST TALK TO OTHER MEN ONLY

WOMEN BEING BULLIED BY SO CALLED GROWN MEN…… WHAT ON EARTH IS WRONG WITH YOU

“BUT A WOMAN CALLED ME A NASTY NAME”

OH CRY HARDER YOU WEIRD TINY LITTLE BOY

DO YOU HAVE TO RETALIATE? NO

IS IT MAKING U CRY? HOPE SO

MAYBE U WANT TO COMPETE IN WOMANS SPORT AND COMPLAIN WHEN THEY SAY YOURE NOT A REAL WOMAN

OUR WOMAN ARE SACRED

YOU NOT SO MUCH

YOULL FIND YOURSELF A NICE HUSBAND IF YOU KEEP THIS UP

“BUT THEYRE OUT OF HAND”

JUST DECLARE WAR AND GET IT OVER WITH…. YOULL BE DISCARDED FROM BOTH SIDES WITH NOTHING BUT YOUR TINY BOYHOOD IN YOUR HANDS

YOURE ACTING LIKE YOU WANT MEN ONLY…… THATS A HOMOSEXUAL THING

AND THERE IS BETTER PLACES FOR SEXUAL GATHERINGS THAN HERE