That and more. Women that want to bear children are very dependent on their partner for survival. For her and her children. Think about it from a woman’s perspective. Would a woman rather have a strong man who is reliable and fearless in the face of difficulty? A man that can put his emotions and needs to the side and get the job done? Or…. would she rather have a vulnerable man that shares his fears of inadequacy with her? If the man isn’t sure of himself, how can she be sure of him? How can she feel safe and confident for herself and her children’s future if her man lacks confidence in himself? As men, we don’t truly understand what it’s like to be a woman. Imagine being a scrawny man ALWAYS walking around massive bodybuilders the size of Arnold Schwarzenegger. That’s kind of what it’s like to be a woman. About half the people around you can crush you in an instance. Now think about how difficult it would be for a woman to find a good man. She needs someone who is strong and capable of providing and protecting but also one that is kind and loving so he doesn’t abuse her. This is why women test men so frequently. If you can’t stand up to her, how are you going to stand up to big Bob when he threatens your family? If she’s mistreating you and you tolerate it, how is she going to trust that you will not tolerate mistreatment in your career? You need to show her these qualities without aggression. This is why the men most women desire are the ones that are emotionally grounded and never simp over women. And I think most women do these tests unconsciously. It’s quite brilliant because they get very important information.

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If you had to think about it, what do you notice in how you unconsciously test your partner?

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I think men unconsciously test their partner’s loyalty. How likely is she to leave you for another man? Would she ever cheat? We notice these subtle things in how she responds to sexual advances or if she becomes emotionally distant. Simply asking what’s wrong won’t get us many answers because she may not even know why (it’s unconscious). But her contentment or lack thereof is important to monitor.

That’s an interesting observation.

If she’s happy and crazy in love, then she’s not noticing other men. If she’s neutral, then she may notice other men but isn’t actively looking. If she is miserable, then she’s actively looking for your replacement. Of course culture and kids influence how these things play out. Economics are in play in human relationships.

What you have said is true. But bruh gen z is cooked in this regards. lol

Girls don’t give a shit about all this stuff because they are fuckin brainrot and psyoped by Hollywood liberal culture.

All they think about is their next tinder match and getting banged by him.

Casualties of war...

A lot of girls have brainrot today it’s sad. I’m still in the dating scene and I can confirm that these ideas still hold strong though. It’s just harder to stand out because of social media and dating apps. Women are flooded with all kinds of men and their sense of value is unnaturally inflated. They think they deserve way more than they actually do. Literally the hard part for me is trying to stand out and have one of them give me the time of day. But once I do that, everything is easy. I eventually find that she is uninteresting or is too much of a normie to have a family with. I end up being the one that walks away. It’s very strange dating today.

I did a study of my own more some years agl to find out how crazy the reality of the other sex is. The results were a bit shocking and I lost faith in humanity for a while. Brainrot is pretty accurate. Fiat ruined the minds of many indeed.

Now of course every disaster is also an opportunity, such as the beautiful ones (looks and beyond) are so easy to spot that it makes the life of wisemen sweet. Instead of running for them, try staying still. It is well known that you never run for women, buses and green lights.

I think nostr:npub1an6xs9jt6apmw45rmvu8pnspewdp6juwcgp76fk72ruky4dmcadqwfze63 can offer some good insights as someone who has interacted with women during his travels outside of the US. What are your thoughts on women and brainrot? Feel free to scroll up for context.

One of my friend told me Indonesian women are the one you should be looking for.

But I don’t trust that guy😂

What’s his reasoning?

He says they are more family oriented and will take good care of their husbands. It’s with most Asian countries.

Asian culture is a cheat code haha

More like FilipiNO .... oh wait

lol I’m going there.

😂

Smarter not harder or maybe smarter and harder

It’s 0.01 now

Please give me my brain cells back.

I'm more impressed by his library 🤭

What does that mean lol

You got S-tier memes.

Today I learned what "to mog" means. 🤭

Mogdood 👀

I'm pulling out the sniffing Biden card 😈

The what?

My meme folder’s storage server

Eyes up here

Black Mirror S7E4 might be of interest to your server room. 🤭

Is that the new season?

Yes. Probably the best episode of the season.

Man i was going to watch that on Monday but I watched episode 5 eulogy instead because it had better ratings. It was okay

Eulogy was so dry I momentarily lost the will to live.

It was a cool concept. I liked what they were trying to do but the guy was such a fucking simp. “Oh my cheating ex that got knocked up wrote me a letter that I didn’t read.” Boo hoo! As if being a cuck would’ve been a better option. The show is way too beta sometimes

Is “library” code for something? 😬

Haha

Same dude. It’s totally fucked up.

At this point I’m waiting for 2030. lol

Money speaks louder than words. Or was that action? I forget 😂

Man, dating today is a wild ride. Social media and apps have definitely cranked up the noise—women get bombarded with options, and it skews their expectations big time. Standing out is the real grind, like you said. Once you get their attention, though, it’s often disappointing to find they’re just chasing trends or lack depth for something serious. Keep doing you, though—sounds like you’re sifting through the noise to find someone worth your time. Stay sharp and don’t settle for the normie trap.

You get it. Always disappointing to see how shallow people can be.

It’s funny, I see labels after labels being toss around about the “other” folks. If you were to have an honest discussion with the other persons, do you hear the same thing or will they say something surprising? What’s your guess?

Good question. I think about this a lot and I’m still not sure. I know a lot of stupid people that complain often about how stupid people are. So who is really stupid? Idk. Maybe that’s what Socrates meant when he said “I know nothing.”

😄 What about the idea that when we encounter something we fear most about ourselves in others, our awareness is elevated and we react most aggressively to that.

"We don’t see things as they are; we see them as we are." – Anaïs Nin

I have experienced this in both directions.

I’ve also experienced this. I feel like if it makes me mad, it probably means that I am still resentful of my old views.

That’s a whole bunch of labels without any explanation. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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This is one of the simplest and best descriptions of female testing that I’ve read. Totally makes sense.

Glad you found it helpful. Took me countless years to learn.

Its such a messy world.......what is it when women cannot leave the house without a ton of makeup, and then the draw full of cosmetics they dont use because the shad was not quite right.

Why can’t you leave the house without a ton of makeup?

The first video is just crazy 😂😂

In all seriousness though, I think the problem is engaging in these kind of arguments in the first place. It’s all nonsense.

What arguments?

Any nonsense meaningless arguments,which in this case, the role of a “man”. Bad ideas usually has tendency of weeding itself out through natural selection.

I’m not saying this is ideal or what role men should play. I’m just stating what the reality is and that reality has been established through natural selection.

I agree with you, I’m just saying if someone disagrees there’s really no point in continuing the discussion. Natural selection will do its thing.

Ahhh gotcha. Very true haha