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Like the tattoo, it's just a convenient signaling/tagging mechanism telling you whom to avoid.

Remember that time you said GM after having said GM several days prior? That was a really great GM and I think of it often.

This is one of the reasons I'm going to bail on Proton and self host email, calendar, and contacts. They won't lift a finger to bring basic 2010-era functionality to their dated apps. Meanwhile, they spend their time developing Bitcoin wallets and AI gimmickry that no one even wants. One of their recent promo emails said something along the lines of, "AI functionality is here, whether we want it or not!" That's the moment when I finally gave up on Proton.

" 'Great life strategy' is subjective. "

That's exactly my point. Some people are cut out for the marriage and family lifestyle and some aren't. It's subjective.

" 'Isn't sinful' is between one and their Maker. "

Nope. The sinfulness of a thing isn't decided as part of some negotiation between a creature and his creator. The creator tells us what's sinful and what's not. It's not up for negotiation. Staying single is explicitly categorized as non-sinful.

" 'Actually quite common' is a bandwagon fallacy. "

Bandwagon fallacy? What is this, eight grade debate class? LOL.

Yes, believe it or not, it really is *common* for a woman to opt out of the marriage and family lifestyle without being a whore. I'm referring to OP's post which stated that the only two viable options for a woman are to (1) marry young and start breeding or (2) become a whore.

See:

https://tinyurl.com/ynchdtah

The thing is though...

It's possible for a woman to avoid the drudgery of marriage and children without embracing whoredom. It's a great life strategy, isn't sinful, and is actually quite common.

Meanwhile he promotes dog-themed memecoins. He's an attention-seeking grifter who doesn't even believe his own words.

Yes to all. I saw a response to one of your other posts, presumably from a Catholic, that said something like "No Mary, no Jesus. Know Mary, know Jesus." Absolutely horrifying. I'll never understand those who see Roman Catholicism as a somewhat misguided form of Christianity. It's not Christian at all. MacArthur once quoted someone (can't recall whom) who said that "the Catholic church is Satan's greatest masterpiece." I tend to agree.

Nice. La Jolla native here. Nowhere beats California!

You post enjoyable and sometimes weird stuff, tell it like it is, and don't virtue signal. I think there's always an audience for that kind of honest content.

That's a good way to live, my man.

I'm retired, own no property, have zero debt, lease month-to-month, own virtually nothing, no kids or dependents other than a cute girlfriend, minimal bank balance, and some corn. I'm content AF. Being fiat-poor with no long-term commitments and having freedom to maneuver is better than being rich in my opinion. No comparison whatsoever.

A man, a plan, a canal. Panama.

Replying to Avatar HODL

You might be lying more than is healthy for you.

Most people think lying is harmless, just social grease or a shortcut through conflict.

I used to think that too.

But the real damage caused by lying isn’t moral. It’s structural. It’s what it does to your internal model of reality.

To be a convincing liar you have to believe your own stories. And the moment you start believing them, you compromise the part of your mind that knows what’s real. That internal compass, the one that helps you navigate the world and navigate yourself, begins to distort. Hannah Arendt warned that when lies replace truth, our ability to orient ourselves collapses. That’s the real danger.

Lying feels like control, but over time it becomes the opposite. You create a false world, and then that false world starts controlling you.

If you’ve been lying long enough, you’ve already split yourself in two: the part of you that knows the truth and the part of you performing the lie. Carl Jung would say the performer becomes a shadow self you start living inside. And if you inhabit that character long enough, you confuse their desires for your own. Eventually the performance becomes the identity, and your entire life bends around maintaining it.

The prescription is simple, but brutal. Tell the truth again.

But be warned. Truth is expensive. David Foster Wallace said the truth will set you free, but not until it is finished with you.

Telling the truth means killing the false self, and that death is painful because you’ve been identifying with that character for years. You’ve invested in them. You’ve protected them. You’ve let them run your life.

Worse, many of your relationships have bonded not with you, but with the liar, with the persona. And when you kill that persona, people will grieve it. Some will resent you. Some will leave. Some will tell you you’re not yourself anymore without realizing they never actually knew you in the first place.

People love the lie. It’s easier to love. Cleaner. More convenient.

When you start telling the truth, don’t expect applause. Expect resistance. Expect disappointment. Expect people to prefer the mask you wore over the face you’re finally revealing.

But if you stay the course, something else happens.

The world becomes solid again.

Your mind aligns with reality.

Your inner compass recalibrates.

And you stop living as a character in a story you never meant to write.

You come back to yourself.

Great essay, and I don't really disagree, but some examples or anecdotes might be helpful. What kind of lies are we talking about? Telling a 200 pound women that she's beautiful? Misrepresentations on a resume? Not providing full transparency to government agencies? Claiming you read the terms and conditions? Different lies have different impacts.

Because I only have two channels open. Both of them are with OKX. Anyone who sends to me or receives from me will have a path that passea through OKX at some point.

I'm not sure what your Lightning setup is or why your wallet returning an internal error, but I'm able to send and receive without issue.

"We got temporary_channel_failure for the invoice's route hint, assuming it can't carry 1000msat. "

My route hint is pointing to OKX Lightning node which, according to 1ml.com, has 380 BTC of Lightning liquidity.

As for my own node, I have about $6,000 of inbound capacity.

So OKX and my node are the only two links in the chain and each link has more than enough capacity for a 1 sat transfer. So assuming you have a path to OKX, and pretty much everyone does, there shouldn't be a problem.

For what it's worth, I can see on my side that the invoices for your 1 sat payment were successfully generated. They were just never paid.

I don't know these people but it sounds like she got a really good deal. She just needs to grind out five years with that schmuck and get her citizenship locked in. From there, she can write her own ticket.

There's no shortage of wealthy, older, beta males wanting to play hero to "rescue" her. At least that's the case in SoCal. As long as she doesn't self-sabotage and make herself undesirable by gaining weight or getting tatted up, both she and the kid have a bright future.

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Someone wrote a book that got really popular within the church called "I kissed dating goodbye", that talked about courting instead of dating.

I think this stupid idea is part of why so many Christian women are in their 30s or 40s and have barely dated, even though they wanna be married.

My husband dated basically the other way around. He'd go on one date with almost anyone, to learn and have fun and leave them better than he fund them.

Due to his many years of doing this practice, I asked him if he could write a chapter on it for our book, "How to prepare yourself for marriage", because I think it's going to help a lot of people to remove the lie that you can only go on a date with someone you already would consider marrying (courtship) and instead start going on single dates with people, to figure out what you like and what you don't like, until you meet someone who actually fits you, and you want them. You don't just want the feeling of someone liking you that you don't really know, but you know what you want, and can tell this person has it! And it's worth investing more time to find out if this is the person you'd like to spend the rest of time life with, actually!

If you're single and would like to learn great tools that will set you up, not only for dating, but for how to have an amazing marriage once you pick your spouse, consider getting our book, "How to prepare yourself for marriage,"

DM me if you want the pdf for 10 000 sats, or go through FikaTimeBooks.com if you want to pay in fiat for a different format. 😃

The “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” author was a guy named Josh Harris. He’s an interesting fellow. He wrote that book in his twenties and, even as a young man, I remember thinking it was complete nonsense. He became a darling in Christian circles though. Youth groups everywhere were reading his garbage.

A few years back, he realized that the book, and his association with Christianity was costing his marketing business customers, particularly among the pervert crowd (LBQ whatever). So he went on an apology tour, embraced the perversions he once despised, divorced his wife, and then renounced not only his book, but Christianity as a whole. It got him a few headlines for maybe a week, but he never regained that fame he once had. He once again faded into obscurity never to be heard from again.

Flight attendants and Nordstrom shoe salesmen?

Agree 💯. The counterargument always seems to be that people’s consumption will plummet. But so what? Is that a bad thing? Isn’t that exactly what the eco-virtue signalers say they want? All their posturing about lowering consumption to save the planet is BS. They *need* inflationary fiat theft to fund their welfare schemes. At the end of the day, they value the handouts that fiat debasement provides rather than the massive reduction in consumption, CO3 emissions, etc. that deflation would enable.

It’s strange that a single mom with a tattoo would see herself as a catch.