Oh Beave, don't give up on love. As cringe as it is, you gotta put yourself out there. Go to the places where the ladies are even if you don't like to. It's not forever, it's for right now. We have a friend who paid for eHarmony and got hooked up with a nice girl, so maybe that's an option. Don't do this on hard mode, use any help you can get 🫂💜
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It's not so much giving up on, there are just real, practical limits that I am running up against. Eventually, I'm going to have to give up on kids. Eventually, I'm going to have to give up on any semblance of "normal" living.
I always play on hard mode because I'm an idiot.
Legit know a guy who had TRIPLETS at 50-ish, with his second much younger wife. You can do it 👏👏👏
That's... A lot.
But I don't think I've got anything that could pull the kind of woman I want.
Pull that negative shit out by the roots and go find you a woman! Damnit!
And I don't want any woman, I want one that will be a good companion and not be a cause for compromising any of my core beliefs. I refuse to do that and that's why I am now where I am in life, since my ex went full nutter.
These are good qualities, but you can be flexible without compromising your core beliefs. Relationships are give and take. It sounds like you were a giver and ex was a taker and you got burned.
start with the first bit.
Ha ha, can relate.
-Fellow Hardmodian 