My brother has told me 3 things could happen by the time I return home to π¨π I'm going to either be:
a) married
b) pregnant
c) married and pregnant
π FFS, bro. Just because he's making me an aunt soon, doesn't mean I'm going to turn him into an uncle.
being an uncle is my fav thing ever
bless him!!
Congratulations, sleepo.
Go be a good uncle. Have you been taking care of yourself?
Sheβs 15 such a complicated age, she has a bf n a bunch of frens n is always out n about, I still give advice whenever she asks but experience tends to be best teacher at the end of the day..
Thanks for asking frfr i have been!! finally got rid of a kidney stone the other day, & the scar left from the fall is pretty ngarly, been keeping chocolate on me at all times π«π«
Howβs Japan?! I canβt wait to go back, hopefully next year for Halloween π₯
Yea, I grew a brain at 15 and couldn't be told what to do. Keep telling her anyway, some of the good stuff sticks and she'll appreciate it some day.
Good to hear!! Glad you're ok now. No more headbanging shit for you, sleeps.
Japan.. idk must have gained 4kg or something. Every trip is a food trip. I love it here. π·
Gotta keep em separated
Better to be A before B, but C is the best. You should be nicer to your siblings π
I'm always nice to him, turtle. He's all I've got. π
I'm very glad to hear. I'm nice to my sister too.
Too many siblings out there with poor relationships. I'm not gonna be one of them.
Glad you're not one of them, hold on tight as long as you can π«π. I'm to the point of wishing I was an only child (baby of 4). Or wishing I'd been born earlier in the birth order.
I hope he's right as to C, I was agnostic about being a father and now i'm regretful I didn't start sooner.
I also hear that often. I think everyone's got their reasons but I think I'm now in a good place to start a terrifying adventure called, a family. I never had one.. not a traditional one anyway so I haven't got a clue. I just know I'll do my best.
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Having a big family is goals.
How big is too big?
I think when all the men pick up multiple mistresses and have like 15 children each, each generation is 10-15x of the last. That's probably too big, and would need to be heavily segmented.
Monogamy with 3-7+ kids is a good arrangement imo.
I canβt even think of a single 15x example. Who are you thinking of?
Sibling pressure is the right kind of pressure. He sounds like a cool guy. I vote C!
π I do love my brother to death so I'm likely to listen to him.
π Was late 20s when I decided I was ready for a kid, with the cheese for more than a decade. My philosophy was it'll happen or it won't. But I was ready to leave him before he proposed ππ€·ββοΈ.
π Love that last bit. You two are lifers. It's obvious.
I think it'll happen when it happens. Idk if I will ever be ready but I am also as ready as I can get. Not sure how to explain it. π
ππ we're something for sure.
Lol, I am a person who completely understands what you're saying. I was happy as we were, but the kid definitely added some sparkle to our lives. I'll never be an "omg a kid will make you complete" but I did decide that I was ready for it and I love my kid more than I can put in to words. You know yourself and your mind and heart and you'll decide what's right for you...through logic and reason (I just hope your fella is a sweet guy).
B and C sound nice. A alone is irrelevant
