Why are you surrounding yourself with people who are not loyal to you?
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I don't ask for loyalty but I try to impose it by example.
why not both?
I offer loyalty because this is how I was raised. If I need to ask for it, something feels wrong. It's like asking your wife not to cheat. Do you need to?
Nah. Everyone will be judged. How they treat me only affects THEIR judgement, not mine. I only worry about staying atop my own high horse, which is difficult but growing easier regularly, as society lowers the bar almost daily.
I only guide myself by what kind of husband and father I will be remembered as.
We only discover it too late if we are surrounded by the wrong people.
Fortunately, there is also the opposite, those who will always be there, even when we don't believe it.
love the unexpected happy outcomes
Everyone wants to see you do well. But just not better than them
Stack sats stay humble and low-key π
Some people only show you who they really are after time goes by.
Not me... I dont peoplise...π₯³
you're a Dodgers fan, so you don't really count π₯³
My loyalty depends on my actions, Uncle!
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from a very young age i realized that the only person you can rely on is yourself, i donβt expect loyalty from anyone
I dunno, you have quite a few people you rely on in your surroundings.
I've figured out who I could call at 3am for help if needed, and that I'll gladly do the same for.
Sometimes the ones closest to us teach the hardest lessons. Iβm learning whoβs really there for me. π«‘
I don't even surround myself with people because loyalty is not a thing people practice these days uncle rockstar
You should separate yourself from all unfaithful/disloyal people because they only steal your energy and cannot appreciate you.
Cause I never learned to demand authentic validation or how to be authentic myself. Itβs a journey β¦ and you ainβt on it. To paraphrase Carlin.
Finally, Real ones stay. The rest? Just background noise.
because they say they are till they aint!
makes you love type of people who directly break up
honestly mate the most expensive thing someone can do to you is the 'slow no'. A good solid fuckoff, is nearly as good as a yes.
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This is what NOSTR reputation will help us with.
Who said what? Did they do it? Did they screw someone over?
It's all coming and until then - stoicism and chill eh
Maybe I expected too much from them. These days, I pour all my energy into my yacht,at least she wonβt betray me. After all, owning a yacht means freedom, not disappointment. Out on the deck, feeling the sea breeze... that's when I'm happiest. https://www.yachttrading.com/
I hope I am not - sometimes you get bad surprises though
Some people stay in your life as blessings, others as lessons.
Could not be avoided!!!
I used to have friends, a fair number of them. But when I was surrounded by some financial legal shit, they all scattered to the wind. Even after I emerged in the right, they were silent. My tribe is now tiny and I wish I could find people I could trust again.
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