When you say accepting them, you mean accepting their lifestyle choices?
The biggest lie that’s been promoted on the topic is that this is “who you are”, “this is your identity”. It’s so insidious. It would be like saying to an alcoholic “this is who you are”, if people don’t accept your alcoholism they don’t accept you.
But It would be the job of the father to handle it with grace and love, but to firm on this position for the sake of his son.
The son also has a roll to play, if he believes the lie above, then he’s almost guaranteed to distance himself from his father.
The damage here is not being caused by the father if he handles it with grace and love.
I can tell you cannot fathom what a homosexual is and have never communicated with one in depth. Alcoholism is comparable to homosexuality? WOW, you have no clue.
Maybe if you attempted to understand them with compassion, empathy, and long form communication instead of writing them off with scripture and quotes…
What is “the lie above” you referenced?
Lol I have two younger brothers who are gay. This is the approach I take with them, I love them very much and we have great relationships. I can’t condone their lifestyle though, but I can love them because they are much more than where they like to sick their dick.
That’s redeeming news. I’m glad you can love them no matter who they love.
Bro this is what I’m talking about. This is the lie, which you have swallowed.
They are people first made in the image of God. They aren’t homosexuals that happen to be people. They are people who have chosen to sin a particular way, no different than me.
Please clarify what this lie is?
The lie promulgated by state sponsored propaganda is that they are somehow “born this way” or “this is just who they are”. So we just need to “just love them for who they are”, which really means be accepting of their lifestyle.
There is no heritable genetic component to homosexuality.
They want you to use the mental framework you have for race and overlay homosexuality.
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I agree there is zero traceable, correlative, heritable component.
It sounds like you’re implying a false binary. The “lifestyle” can arrive from non-heritable mechanisms. I believe a combination of entropy and environment can result in homosexuality. With no clear weighting/ratio recipe. I do think that environment-influences can EASILY get evil and manipulative. Example being Target’s child swimwear stunt this past June.
Yes, there is a choice that happens in the individual but there are varying degrees of the amount of free will exercised in that choice depending external influences.
Side point: There is a weird idea that once you decide to be gay you can never not be gay. Makes zero sense.
Yeah I agree that makes zero sense.
If it’s not too personal, may I ask if you’ve spoken to either or both of your brothers about the first time they felt a hint of attraction towards males?
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Something to keep in mind is that having a proclivity or desire is not the same as acting on those desires. Being homosexual is not a sin. Acting on those desires is what’s consideres a sin. Any christian can love (will the good) of a homosexual while also encouraging them not to act on their desires
Correct, I would add that the function that controls these desired has the ability to be corrupted. (Ie weird internet porn fetiches). No one is born with the desire to jack off to hentai porn.
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