Ladies of nostr actually curious do you like pickup lines ? Or use them

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Aa a guy, I like it when a good pick up is used on me. Rarely happens though 🤭

Rarely indeed i think all times a line was used on me was in a jokey context like they knew it was cheesy

I am lady please give pick me up line.

Ma'am i dont have any 🤷

Did it hurt?

I once asked a hot waiter if I could have him to-go as well. But no I haven’t used many pick up lines in my time. I’m more likely to think of a cheesy pickup line or hear one and be inclined to use it on a partner than a stranger.

Did it work tho ?

On the waiter? Yeah I got his number and we went on a date. Unfortunately the date swerved into utter surrealism when I felt like I couldn’t leave a friend to her own devices and he felt like he couldn’t leave us. There was a toddler covered in chocolate pudding that popped up around 3am. His Dad almost gave me the toddler. Like that’s how weird the night got.

Well thats one way to have a unforgettable night

I would run into the waiter from time to time for a while afterwards. We never tried to go another date, try for a normal date. I’d love to bump into him now just to tell him that friend of mine is now a married mother of two.

This is awesome haha (about asking having him to go). I love girls who's not afraid to make the first move.

It was a ladies brunch gone wild. I was totally put up to it. I rarely have the chutzpah to blatantly hit on someone. I’m more likely to silently crush for ages.

Actually occasionally I can muster the courage myself. I have no idea what stars have to align for that to happen.

Just start with a scammy "hello". 😆😉

I don’t want to come across scammy

Aww

Sounds like more ladies brunch would be nice. 😄

I love ladies brunches. That’s the only one I’ve ended up asking a waiter out towards the end.

+1 for the ladies brunch. Anyone in South East Florida wanna meet for lunch - I'm down!

Did it work?

Read the reply to Sgt.Fish

I have a very intimidating personality so without me initiating a convo through a pick up line would be a zero score. Thing is, I don't use pick up lines - I don't even do engagement farming on here (BOOM!) and pick up lines don't work for me, as I have a habit of profiling a stranger that walks up to me even before he opens his mouth

I hit the ignore button for dudes with shallow brains and brass bearings

Most cerebral men don't normally use pick up lines, fyi

But some men play the the useless, brainless ego trip when most of us ladies would just melt for something incredibly silly, anything simple but well-thought of, which means the guy spent time planning the surprise

Or I could go hook, line and sinker for some silent (but deadly) type, grand-scheming Corleone antics - someone did that to me in Tokyo, reserved and paid for the entire venue for one night, just to invite me and my colleagues, though he never even got to dance with me, nor hold my hand, as I'm a no-go for married men, so yeah baby, gimme some Michael Corleone coolness and I just might drop anything atm

Got ya so no

No and no.

Sometimes pick up lines are flirty and funny, but I don't want to be "picked up", nor do I want to "pick someone up".

That makes sense thanks for a different view