find a subby boy :3
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But I'm a subby girl 🤣
lol
oof
men chase
Not in my experience 😭😭😭
But yea what can ya do I guess 🤣
if i'm being honest, not in my experience either—i was claimed before i knew to pursue lol
life and love are too complex and rich to be summed up in a pithy response anyway :3
That's how it's always happened to me before too, sometimes someone just shows up and goes "you're mine now" and isn't it nice to feel like I belong 🤣
It'll happen eventually I have faith, the prophecy shall be fulfilled and so will I 🤞🍆🤞
Fax 📠
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it's a guy thing, i think.
even as a sub—or a "bottom," i still enjoy and want to chase.
it just has a different type of energy from a "typical" dynamic. :3
People's dating advice: put yourself out there! Ask guys out! Make yourself available!
Also people's dating advice: guys want to chase! Give them a challenge! It's a game to enjoy!
Even more dating advice: just be yourself! Don't play games!
Fucking survivorship bias
ugh... didn't mean to frustrate you...
also, for me, it's worse than survivorship bias—it was literally just happenstance.
i'm very aware that i can offer nearly zero dating advice because i've only had one long term partner. but i can offer a lot of "how to stay together" advice lol
i wouldn't make it in today's dating landscape, so i empathize ;_;
It'll happen I have faith! 🙏🍆🙏
People say all kinds of things. Just be yourself worked for me for years. Not playing games as well but then …
Some of us are weird AF. So 😂
The dating scene is super weird these days, but I still have faith and keep putting myself out there. It's like looking for your keys, it's always in the last place you look! Because that's when you stop looking 😅
Oh man I was gonna watch Halloween movies tonight but maybe I need to watch Grease instead 🤣 what a freaking classic!