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find a subby boy :3

But I'm a subby girl 🤣

lol

oof

men chase

Not in my experience 😭😭😭

But yea what can ya do I guess 🤣

if i'm being honest, not in my experience either—i was claimed before i knew to pursue lol

life and love are too complex and rich to be summed up in a pithy response anyway :3

That's how it's always happened to me before too, sometimes someone just shows up and goes "you're mine now" and isn't it nice to feel like I belong 🤣

It'll happen eventually I have faith, the prophecy shall be fulfilled and so will I 🤞🍆🤞

lol

it is a nice feeling—to feel chosen...

it's also nice to return the favor. <3

i'm rooting for you~! :3

I think I know just the man for the job.

*Miles Davis plays softly in background*

Fax 📠

ikr

it's a guy thing, i think.

even as a sub—or a "bottom," i still enjoy and want to chase.

it just has a different type of energy from a "typical" dynamic. :3

People's dating advice: put yourself out there! Ask guys out! Make yourself available!

Also people's dating advice: guys want to chase! Give them a challenge! It's a game to enjoy!

Even more dating advice: just be yourself! Don't play games!

Fucking survivorship bias

ugh... didn't mean to frustrate you...

also, for me, it's worse than survivorship bias—it was literally just happenstance.

i'm very aware that i can offer nearly zero dating advice because i've only had one long term partner. but i can offer a lot of "how to stay together" advice lol

i wouldn't make it in today's dating landscape, so i empathize ;_;

It'll happen I have faith! 🙏🍆🙏

People say all kinds of things. Just be yourself worked for me for years. Not playing games as well but then …

Some of us are weird AF. So 😂

i think we're all weird here

:3

I would love it if everyone embraced their #weird fully and loved it. Gen

I think most here do a decent job of embracing their weird! Or maybe I only follow weird folks 🤣🤔

The dating scene is super weird these days, but I still have faith and keep putting myself out there. It's like looking for your keys, it's always in the last place you look! Because that's when you stop looking 😅

Oh man I was gonna watch Halloween movies tonight but maybe I need to watch Grease instead 🤣 what a freaking classic!

A ₿it ₿roker?

Earlier this week I was like, pfft these guys I'm interviewing with are not my preferred management style I'm going to pass when they give me the offer....

Just a few days later and I'm like, you're giving me the offer though right? Right??? WHERE'S THE OFFER WHERE IS IT I NEED TO GET PAID 😭

I “watch” probably 2hrs of ads a day for 1k sats i have my own problems

Wait but I watch ads for free? Wtf?

This is super neat thank you so much for sharing!!!

Just remember i give away all my info for sats to zap

You're keeping our circular economy going and we thank you for your service sir 🫡

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