Masculinity isn’t toxic. The absence of it is.
Weak men are abusive and spiteful.
Strong, masculine men are protective and loving.
Know the difference. 😁
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We have a serious lack of masculinity in modern Western society.
Ain’t that some real ass shit.
Sounds OG to me.
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Yes
anyone see the problem here?
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Exactly. 99% of what is called “toxic masculinity” is actually a bunch of soy bois being total insecure bitches.😆 
Yes thank you!
I’m so glad you see this too! We must keep telling the others. 😂🙌🏻🔥😁
The best way to “tell” them, is to show them.
That’s up to the boys! But I’ll keep spreading light & positivity. 😁
That’s good too…..every boy needs encouragement from a strong, intelligent, and confident woman!
Yes. We all deserve that.
hallmark drivel but ok...
You’re such a joy to read. Thank you for your input.
thanks - wish I could say the same.
Stop following me. Easy fix.
too much effort, plus I like to keep tabs on feminized men in order that I may anticipate their ultimate "loving" attack.
😂 you’re “an aspiring” writer?
Can you point me towards a piece of yours, cause your feed looks to be a concoction of Ann Coulter’s used tampons.
Don’t fall for it, or give it any energy.
Higher frequencies for the win. Mental parasites will do everything they can to pull you back. Never give it your energy. That’s how they survive. 😁
this shit is just a denial of all reality...
you think its cute now, but you will need the abuse and spite of men to protect you in the future since your stupid ideas about human nature have left you and your grandchildren wide open for attack...
see, selfish cunts, I am for the kids who dont have a voice in all of your backpatting spiritual narcissism...
you have your "love" - I have mine.
heard u need a hug
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have 3
What a good fren 🥹 
my fav cycle of them all 🫂🐸💜
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the crazy truth here is that you guys are the truly mean ones...
covering all your dirt with fluffy spiritual narcissism...
when challenged , even when presented with what the children will have to deal with because of your gross and exaggerated SENTIMENTALISM , you refuse to acknowledge the point ...
instead reverting to truly hateful laughs and jeers and high-fives ...
#reflection
spiritually speaking, this is you:
Something about kids getting hurt makes this all spiritual narcissism? Please bridge this gap for me. Maybe we all could learn.
Your internal state needs much work my friend. You have offered us poison, yet we have chosen not to take it… so to whom does the poison return? 
i just disagreed with the womans characterization of male attributes and their usage...
then the lovegang got all butthurt cuz they have no sense of levity snd fancy their own shit smelling like roses...
you arent fooling anyone
You said she will need the abuse and spite of men to protect her in the future and then you play the victim…😂😂😂😂😂. 
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bro, you really made a conscious decision to call yourself buddha?
that was not a response to her in particular mr white knight beta buddha...
This man is so desperate for an argument, 😂😂😂😂.
not really - just had issue with the op (thats POST not poster)
Easiest way to reply is in note below. Guys like this cannot handle being ignored lmeow. Hilarious reaction last time too. Mans will, hopefully, learn one day that he can have his opinions and learn how to appropriately communicate them.
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I only charge $5 for a 5 minute argument.
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also, lets chill here on the personals...
i dont know any of you personally - it was some words i was taking issue with...
believe it or not, I was wondering where nostr:npub14hlzw4sywt23drreaqs8ruf00dsrnnv5hfnyu49g2hpheq836umssur6nl and nostr:npub175hdheqn0arfdgywe9n2rze5eaf0j2mlz0xp5kq30vy57jqsncdqy2tpe9 have been lately - just this morning -
i found out...
god bless you guys - maybe what i see coming wont come and you guys can kumbaya right up your disney-scented bums and count psychedelic unicorn fractals unto eternity...
let the games continue.
How amazing that you are able to know his inner state from this short exchange. What keen insight you possess.
Thank you. Would you like a free reading of your internal state? The first one is free.
usually i would hate to do this im not really into bragging , but, if what you said were true, how then do I do things like this on the regular?
again, the difference bewteen your spiritual narcissism and real love getting things done...
now gfy posers. 
I know. Sometimes I need to engage, just to observe them in their element.
you will learn.
What makes you think I haven’t?
I’ve spent many of my years enveloped in hate for the “other”. It got me nowhere. It didn’t provide me with anything. It’s still there. Always will be, like a dormant seed, hidden amongst everything that is its complete opposite.
You choose to feed yours, water it, fertilize it, and then attempt to water mine. To surround yourself with others that hate. To protect yourself from being vulnerable, because you can’t do it on your own.
One day, you may realize that your wounds are self inflicted. That you are the cause of your pain. You may never. You may die alone, drowned in the shade of your flower, that you could never contain.
you misinterpreted what i meant by you will learn...
unsurprising.
your assumption that I am steeped in hate is laughable but thats just it with you fucking binaries purity spirallers...
no sense of humor is another big one...
would hate to see your types in control... Soviet Russia is the model.
feel the love...
This is a great example of Toxic vs. Non-Toxic masculinity.
As we see here, this gentleman is attempting to troll and get a rise out of the fellas in the comments.
Perhaps due to challenges he has yet to overcome in his past, and the anger that he has not yet healed.
I hope he sheds it and learns to see the beauty around him. 😁
Don’t be hating on Hallmark, they make baller movies.
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True ❤️
It's rare to see a woman online not bashing men, so this is nice to see 🤙
Women bashing men are living in fear with a way to use their voice. They’re jaded. There’s good in all people, and not everyone is evil. I prefer to see the light.
Yes. Real men can walk in all worlds. Be sensitive and loving and supportive, and then dangerous if necessary. But not dangerous to those they love. ❤️❤️❤️
Exactly! 👏🏻
Aymen to that. That's what I told my son,
Aymen ;)
I dont normally comment on your posts nostr:npub14hlzw4sywt23drreaqs8ruf00dsrnnv5hfnyu49g2hpheq836umssur6nl just because I don't generally have anything to say.
However I'll say so thing now, in light of some people's proclivity towards anger and aggression, I wanted to say to that your words are always appreciated and I hear your message. It has brought light into my life and for that I thank you.
On the topic of your post I want to tell you a story-
When I was boy, my father beat my mother, myself, and my older brother.
He was full of anger and rage against the world and the people around him. He was never in the wrong and would always pick a fight with anyone who thought to tell him different.
That rage still consumes him to this day, while it has subsided, he views the world through hate filled glasses.
When I was about 7 he went to prison and I never saw him again. I was raised by my mom, grandmother, and grandfather.
I learned how to be a man from these three individuals. At least I learned the most about it so far from these individuals
My grandfather taught me how to treat a woman, my grandmother taught me how to love and how to be kind to people even when you didnt want to. And my Mother taught me to fight for things I believe in.
None of these teachers taught me through words. No they taught me through action. Through stories.
My grandfather treated my grandmother with grace, and reverence, love and respect. He loved her more than his family, and his family was everything to him.
My grandmother showed me how to accept my faults and move on. She taught me how to respect my body and my mind. She showed me how to be kind to others, even when you don't think that person deserves it.
My mother showed me that if you don't fight for things in this world, if you don't give it your all 100 percent of the time, then you will lose everything you wanted or ever had.
The reason I tell you all of this is because not everyone has influences such as my teachers. They have a harder time understanding. They are like my father, still consumed by his rage. He will die holding on to that anger and that hate.
Life isn't always sunshine and rainbows and no matter how bright we shine our light there are dark places the light cannot reach. There are souls that are lost in this lifetime and no amount of positive regard will change that for them.
All we can do, is let our light act as a shield. Reppeling all that would seek to harm us. Defending those who haven't found their light.
Keep spreading your light Lauren, there are people out there that appreciate it.
Thank you for your light.
Can anybody explain to me what's this all about (the replies).
stop fucking dividing men to good and bad. the left are telling me that masculine men are «toxic», the right - that «weak» men are abusive. it's not up to you, morons, to decide, which men are good and worthy, and which men are bad and shitty. let every man be what he is.
The majority of bitcoiner men are some of the best and brightest men with integrity that I have ever met crypto Bros on the other hand. Well what can I say?🤷🏽♂️
100% We are surrounded by drips right now