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gentlemen, would you rather be with a woman who respects you a lot, but is not very physically intimate with you?

or a woman who has only a little respect you, but is very physically intimate with you?

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An Obvious Alt 9mo ago

It depends. I'd like to think I'd go for respect, but I also know I'd get really frustrated eventually, and that would probably lead to a lack of respect. And, actually, judging from my last few relationships, I probably ping pong between them.

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purrs_for_Her 9mo ago

great answer.

i think the ping-ponging occurs because *both* are important for a man—well, most of us.

it kinda like the love languages stuff. sure, we have preferences to a degree, but typically the one(s) we desire most is the one we lack at the moment.