gentlemen, would you rather be with a woman who respects you a lot, but is not very physically intimate with you?
or a woman who has only a little respect you, but is very physically intimate with you?
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Discussion
Respect. Might be fun for a while with more intimacy but doesn't mean anything without respect
i think i lean your direction as well. i'm a bit kinky and cuddly and like a lot of physical intimacy (doesn't have to be sexual), but i don't think it would be enjoyable if She had little to no respect for me. it'd feel more like an arrangement than a relationship.
thanks for sharing~! ^^
It depends. I'd like to think I'd go for respect, but I also know I'd get really frustrated eventually, and that would probably lead to a lack of respect. And, actually, judging from my last few relationships, I probably ping pong between them.
great answer.
i think the ping-ponging occurs because *both* are important for a man—well, most of us.
it kinda like the love languages stuff. sure, we have preferences to a degree, but typically the one(s) we desire most is the one we lack at the moment.
