My #sex life went way, way down after getting married — especially after my wife had the baby a couple years ago. It's like someone turned the light switch off. Has anyone else had this problem? How did you resolve it? Thanks. #asknostr
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Not married so can't really speak on it, but have you had the conversation with her?
All time time. Her libido died down a lot after pregnancy
every couple i know is complete sex rug pull after the kid 😂
National average is 1-2 times per month for married couples
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Wanted to follow up on this... Not sure if y'all approached marriage from the Christian perspective but I'm going to post this anyways...
This is the Douay-Rheims version (I like the Old English)
3 Let the husband render the debt to his wife, and the wife also in like manner to the husband.
4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband. And in like manner the husband also hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud not one another, except, perhaps, by consent, for a time, that you may give yourselves to prayer; and return together again, lest Satan tempt you for your incontinency.
Check out “Come As You Are” by Emily Nagoski
Great book. Mostly targeted towards women, but written with succinct info useful for anyone and everyone who is looking to improve their sex life.
Not a huge fan of Reddit for most things, but r/marriedredpill and r/askMRP may be of some help.
brothers if you had the straight forward conversation already and she doesnt want to work on it with you, leave her. its called irreconcilable differences. this is coming from a man married almost 2 decades btw.
women will see a doctor for other chemical imbalances why not this? dont be a fool in this regards, if she sees a man she feels is attractive her body/hormones will naturally jump into action just like yours.
Same. My wife was in 110% mommy mode, and was not existing as a sexual being at all. All of her attention and energy was going to the kids.
Eventually she realized that she is also a woman and my wife, and the interest returned. It took a lot longer than I would have liked, but it did happen.
How long did it take? We still do it, but asking is like pulling teeth 😬. And I always initiate which sucks
buy #bitcoin and give him a whole btc. #bitcoin fix this
Boosting this because I particularly want married women's experience with this
#asknostr #sex
You should check out uncoveringintimacy.com and the podcast they put out called the Sex Within Marriage podcast. One of their recent Q&A episodes addressed something like this: https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-127-aq-not-interested-in-sex-are-men-infatuated-with-ejaculate-and-many-more-questions/
Helpful, thank you
Another resource from them I just came across: