If yes maybe add a big relay like nos.lol. Then again that won’t help if the person’s note isn’t on that relay. You only use primal I imagine?
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So when you zap someone, is the application you use for zapping which decides which relays the zap receipt will be sent to. If you can isolate one particular outgoing zap from your application, I should be able to get the zap receipt and we can look at it together and see what's up.
I just zapped you both. I'm sorry I don't know enough to be very helpful.


I see in the wallet not in notifications. I don’t even see this note in notifications. One other thing that could help is just add this relay wss://sendit.nosflare.com
It’s a blastr relay. It will broadcast your notes to many relays. It’s free
You've almost doubled my active relays. Lol I appreciate you, sir.

The ones who are red, are they ever green? If not I would remove those
Roundrock and relayable have been green at some points. I honestly rarely ever check relays. Nostr definitely requires effort and attention to be usable, and that's gonna keep a lot of normies from adoption.
Mostly primal. I've dabbled with nostr:nprofile1qqszpxr0hql8whvk6xyv5hya7yxwd4snur4hu4mg5rctz2ehekkzrvcpp4mhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mqpr3mhxue69uhkummnw3ez6vp39eukz6mfdphkumn99e3k7mgd22h8g since primal went down last week.
I'm not sure how often I see it. Only a couple times I've noticed notes that definitely seem like they're replies, and not meant to be original notes.
Yakihonne has the gossip model. You can toggle it on in settings/content moderation. With this turned on yakihonne would be able to find the notes of people you follow with your current relay set. But that would only work while you use yakihonne, not primal. I don’t think it has that feature